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Sexual Harassment in the workplace

Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:00 pm
Posted by KSGamecock
The Woodlands, TX
Member since May 2012
22982 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:00 pm
How would you define Sexual Harassment?

At what point does a person cross the line from playful joking or harmless romantic interest into unacceptable sexual harassment?

Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:02 pm to
Firstly: When it's overtly sexual and there can be no other explanation.

Secondly: If the person being flirted with has expressed discomfort in the way you speak.
Posted by KSGamecock
The Woodlands, TX
Member since May 2012
22982 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:03 pm to
What if it's a one time incident, just an inappropriate joke made about a person who isn't even present? Would you still call that harassment if the person didn't like the joke?

For some reason when I hear "harassment" I think it has to be a series of events.
This post was edited on 7/15/14 at 7:04 pm
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:05 pm to
quote:

What if it's a one time incident, just an inappropriate joke made about a person who isn't even present? Would you still call that harassment if the person didn't like the joke?


It depends on the context and the severity of the 'joke'. For instance, if it's something like: "Hey, what color is your thong?", it's a one and done. Not direct firing, but I'd definitely reprimand someone.

If the joke is more demure in nature then of course, you just give a slight warning.

It's all based on the context though, each case should be taken on its own.

PS I run a class on business ethics.
Posted by oklahogjr
Gold Membership
Member since Jan 2010
36748 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:07 pm to
continued unwanted sexual advances or innuendo that make another uncomfortable.
Posted by Phat Phil
Krispy Kreme
Member since May 2010
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Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:13 pm to
It's sexual harassment if you're ugly.

Tom Brady's educational video on sexual harassment
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:15 pm to
"The incident may be one time occurrence but more often it has a type of repetitiveness." As per most handbooks but as I said:

It should be a case by case basis, so if you want a direct answer (this seems more serious than most threads here), please give me more details.
Posted by diddydirtyAubie
Bozeman
Member since Dec 2010
39829 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:17 pm to
pulling out your penis is in the gray area.
Posted by wartiger2004
Proud LGB Supporter!
Member since Aug 2011
17815 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:30 pm to
I was going to say trying to play just the tip may be crossing the line slightly.
Posted by InfantryDawg
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Posted on 7/15/14 at 7:48 pm to
Posted by Reservoir dawg
Member since Oct 2013
14094 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:37 pm to
Quid pro quo and hostile environment I believe.
Posted by RTOTA
Birmingham, AL
Member since Dec 2010
588 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 9:11 pm to
Sexual harassment is defined much differently for men and women, that's for sure. I had what I would consider sexual harassment from a female coworker (who was engaged), and I realized if I did anything remotely close to that to a woman I would be immediately fired, if they didn't like it that is. FWIW, I did enjoy the ego boost, but it almost cost me my job as there was no way for anyone to think I wasn't the aggressor in the situation once it became obvious to other employees.
Posted by UMTigerRebel
Member since Feb 2013
9819 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 9:23 pm to
quote:

Firstly: When it's overtly sexual and there can be no other explanation.

Secondly: If the person being flirted with has expressed discomfort in the way you speak.


This.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 9:47 pm to
quote:

This.


I meant to add 'act' as well, but thank you for the support.
Posted by reggierayreb
Germantown
Member since Nov 2012
16949 posts
Posted on 7/15/14 at 11:15 pm to
quote:

How would you define sexual harassment ?



When she's attractive and he's not
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 7/16/14 at 8:05 am to
The thing with sexual harassment is everyone's line to cross is different. Some women don't want to be flirted with at all and consider any action deemed flirting as harassment. Some have no line and you can grope them in the workplace and they'll laugh it off.

I've been involved in a few sexual harassment claims at different jobs, and only one of them was really harassment. Weird thing is, in all 3 of them the woman was the accused. Only one resulted in a firing, and it was probably the flimsiest accusation, but she had some other performance issues so it was a good scapegoat.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67005 posts
Posted on 7/16/14 at 8:33 am to
1. For the purposes of the law and your HR department, sexual harassment is whatever the woman your talking to says it is.

2. If you're handsome and charming enough, NOTHING is sexual harassment
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67005 posts
Posted on 7/16/14 at 8:38 am to
Posted by cokebottleag
I’m a Santos Republican
Member since Aug 2011
24028 posts
Posted on 7/16/14 at 9:49 am to
quote:

1. For the purposes of the law and your HR department, sexual harassment is whatever the woman your talking to says it is.



99% of the time, this applies. 1% of the time people realize the bitch is crazy/lying and the charges get dropped/she gets a raise.
Posted by camdonspicolli
Oxford MS (Gods Country)
Member since Jul 2014
224 posts
Posted on 7/16/14 at 10:12 am to
when its no longer funny to the majority of the audience or participants
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