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Guy goes on a few dates w/ girl, and ends it- Girl gets him fired
Posted on 9/27/13 at 1:38 pm
Posted on 9/27/13 at 1:38 pm
Women doing women things
Poor guy. It's a shame that females let their emotions run a muck. Hell, I've been blown off a couple of times in my life by a woman, but I never thought about trying to ruin their life.
I have a similar story. So I meet this cute girl at a friends house one night, and we hit it off. She seemed pretty cool and laid back, so we went on a couple of dates after. We had fun, but at that time in my life I had a lot going on with traveling for work, and some crappy things going on. I explained to her what was going on, and how I cant be in a relationship right now, but she kept going on about how we should be together and how I shouldnt screw this up, and that I led her on. Once normal communication broke down I apologized for her misunderstanding, and hung up.
The next few days I'm under a barrage of texts/facebook messages/calls/etc. I completely ignore all of them hoping it will run its course. A few days after that I check my Linkedin account and guess who viewed my profile. After returning to the office from a meeting that same day one of my coworkers informed me that a female called the office asking if I was alive, and wanting to know about my well being while remaining anonymous. Later that day my office had another anonymous call that was fielded by our bitchy backstabbing HR manager, and told her I might be in danger. Eventually the calls stopped, and the office got over it.
tl:dr- crazy bitch fricks with my worklife.
Any other guys have any other similar experiences? shite's scary.
Poor guy. It's a shame that females let their emotions run a muck. Hell, I've been blown off a couple of times in my life by a woman, but I never thought about trying to ruin their life.
I have a similar story. So I meet this cute girl at a friends house one night, and we hit it off. She seemed pretty cool and laid back, so we went on a couple of dates after. We had fun, but at that time in my life I had a lot going on with traveling for work, and some crappy things going on. I explained to her what was going on, and how I cant be in a relationship right now, but she kept going on about how we should be together and how I shouldnt screw this up, and that I led her on. Once normal communication broke down I apologized for her misunderstanding, and hung up.
The next few days I'm under a barrage of texts/facebook messages/calls/etc. I completely ignore all of them hoping it will run its course. A few days after that I check my Linkedin account and guess who viewed my profile. After returning to the office from a meeting that same day one of my coworkers informed me that a female called the office asking if I was alive, and wanting to know about my well being while remaining anonymous. Later that day my office had another anonymous call that was fielded by our bitchy backstabbing HR manager, and told her I might be in danger. Eventually the calls stopped, and the office got over it.
tl:dr- crazy bitch fricks with my worklife.
Any other guys have any other similar experiences? shite's scary.
This post was edited on 9/27/13 at 1:43 pm
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Posted on 9/27/13 at 1:42 pm to DonDraper
What a fricking psychopath.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 1:44 pm to DonDraper
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I was stunned into paralysis. I had no words–this never happens–and I just felt short of breath. There were many things that pissed me off, but I was so flustered I couldn’t even articulate them.
What a count
Posted on 9/27/13 at 1:47 pm to DonDraper
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I was stunned into paralysis. I had no words–this never happens–and I just felt short of breath. There were many things that pissed me off, but I was so flustered I couldn’t even articulate them. Again, this is a serious problem for a writer and effusive communicator.
I was still so agitated 10 hours later that I had to leave opera rehearsal early. This is a serious no-no, given that opening night is Saturday at the Organization of American States.
Then I realized: I am on the eve of my 26th birthday. Why am I stewing instead of just expressing what I really feel? There is practically nothing to lose from just telling the truth.
Holy. shite. This lady thinks an awful lot of herself.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:05 pm to DonDraper
What this count forgot to leave out of the story is after having champagne, she got hammered, let him plow her and now she's pissed. No way she gets this flustered after two intro dates without her slutting it up.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:09 pm to TeLeFaWx
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This lady thinks an awful lot of herself.
my thoughts as well... it's amazing to me how self-centered people can be. as if her love life is so important to the world that she feels the need to make it public knowledge and show how she got this dude fired.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:10 pm to lowspark12
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my thoughts as well... it's amazing to me how self-centered people can be. as if her love life is so important to the world that she feels the need to make it public knowledge and show how she got this dude fired.
And her justification. Now that she's older and more mature, she's allowed to do this? I don't understand. It is backwards.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:17 pm to TeLeFaWx
I don't understand how she got a second date. She better make Kate Upton look like Ayn Rand for me to put up with that much self righteousness for more than a one night stand.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:17 pm to TeLeFaWx
She was so far out of bounds she wasn't even playing on the same field. You don't try to ruin someone's career over 2 dates. Unless you're being stalked, or harassed, you let it go and move on. I can't think of a single instance where sending messages to his employer would be OK, unless they worked for the same place and it was a stalking situation.
He, on the other hand, was ridiculous for planning a romantic weekend trip for the birthday of someone he's seen twice and isn't wanting to get involved with further. (That's leading someone on.) And don't know if they had sex or not, but dumping someone via text if you've slept together is gutless. And sexting someone who isn't reciprocating? Sounds like perhaps he thinks a lot of himself too. Wonder what happened between "planning the romantic getaway" and "dumping by text message?"
Of course, this is assuming any of that crap can be believed. Seems like two such self-absorbed people could have been perfect for each other.
He, on the other hand, was ridiculous for planning a romantic weekend trip for the birthday of someone he's seen twice and isn't wanting to get involved with further. (That's leading someone on.) And don't know if they had sex or not, but dumping someone via text if you've slept together is gutless. And sexting someone who isn't reciprocating? Sounds like perhaps he thinks a lot of himself too. Wonder what happened between "planning the romantic getaway" and "dumping by text message?"
Of course, this is assuming any of that crap can be believed. Seems like two such self-absorbed people could have been perfect for each other.
This post was edited on 9/27/13 at 2:22 pm
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:25 pm to semotruman
It wasn't for her birthday. It was for the weekend after her birthday.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:27 pm to semotruman
Wow what a selfish little bitch. She's not even hot yet she certainly thinks highly of herself. She definitely needs to learn to grow up.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:31 pm to DonDraper
sounds like the guy lucked up in getting fired by the company now. I wouldn't want to work for a place that is going to fire me over a girl being mad about not getting a date
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:32 pm to semotruman
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She was so far out of bounds she wasn't even playing on the same field. You don't try to ruin someone's career over 2 dates. Unless you're being stalked, or harassed, you let it go and move on. I can't think of a single instance where sending messages to his employer would be OK, unless they worked for the same place and it was a stalking situation.
Agreed. "Again, this is a serious problem for a writer and effusive communicator. " She really, truly, believes her opinions matter. Lol. Women like this, will NEVER get it. They will settle, and settle hard, for a huge dweeb because they are GIANT pushovers and are so enamored with the female who is WAY out of their league they don't know any better. I've already seen it twice.
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He, on the other hand, was ridiculous for planning a romantic weekend trip for the birthday of someone he's seen twice and isn't wanting to get involved with further. (That's leading someone on.) And don't know if they had sex or not, but dumping someone via text if you've slept together is gutless. And sexting someone who isn't reciprocating? Sounds like perhaps he thinks a lot of himself too. Wonder what happened between "planning the romantic getaway" and "dumping by text message?"
Don't know about this because I think it is lame and stupid, but I have had a friend take a girl on a romantic date after about three weeks because he wanted their first time to be special. He's a huge bitch, no part of that makes sense to me, but it's the rom-com generation, so people do stupid shite. No idea why he cancelled, maybe she was choice number two and choice number one finally agreed.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:32 pm to TeLeFaWx
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This lady thinks an awful lot of herself.
Didn't you read? She lives in a condo, and blogs bro....
With my situation I actually had a somewhat of a heads up, but I didn't have the foresight to see it.
On our 3rd and last date, she starts telling me about how her friend at work got screwed over bad by some POS sleaze ball boyfriend. She goes on to tell me how her and friend/coworker found the guys profile on match.com, and that the girl set up a fake profile and set up a date with the guy at nice steakhouse in Atl. The plan was for the guy to be waiting for her at the table, then for her to show up and cuss/chew out, pour a drink on him and walkout.
I'm friends with one of their coworkers, and it turns out she executed her plan to perfection. I also learned that the "sleaze ball POS" wasn't even her boyfriend, just a guy the banged her a couple of times, and didn't want to talk to her anymore because she's a sloppy drunk and cussed out his roommate.
So romantic.
Girls my age(late 20's) feel entitled to everything, and have a overblown sense of self worth.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:37 pm to semotruman
Whoa partner....
That's her side of the story, for all we know he agreed to go on another date with her.
How can you dump someone who you've only been on a few dates with????
And how do you know that? I'd be willing to bet she sent the first one.
Hey, you don't happen to be a blonde that lives in Buckhead that works for a recruiting agency, do you? We might know each other.
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He, on the other hand, was ridiculous for planning a romantic weekend trip for the birthday of someone he's seen twice and isn't wanting to get involved with further. (That's leading someone on.)
That's her side of the story, for all we know he agreed to go on another date with her.
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but dumping someone via text if you've slept together is gutless.
How can you dump someone who you've only been on a few dates with????
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And sexting someone who isn't reciprocating?
And how do you know that? I'd be willing to bet she sent the first one.
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semotruman
Hey, you don't happen to be a blonde that lives in Buckhead that works for a recruiting agency, do you? We might know each other.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:40 pm to DonDraper
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On our 3rd and last date, she starts telling me about how her friend at work got screwed over bad by some POS sleaze ball boyfriend. She goes on to tell me how her and friend/coworker found the guys profile on match.com, and that the girl set up a fake profile and set up a date with the guy at nice steakhouse in Atl. The plan was for the guy to be waiting for her at the table, then for her to show up and cuss/chew out, pour a drink on him and walkout.
fricking weird. How do people not have anything better to do. Women seriously need more hobbies. I noticed this at a young age too. If I ever have daughtes I am putting them in all sorts of activities just do they don't just sit around and do shite like this.
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I'm friends with one of their coworkers, and it turns out she executed her plan to perfection. I also learned that the "sleaze ball POS" wasn't even her boyfriend, just a guy the banged her a couple of times, and didn't want to talk to her anymore because she's a sloppy drunk and cussed out his roommate.
I have been the guy that took out a girl with me who was a sloppy drunk, cussed out some of my friends, banged her that night because while she was a shite show and I was a baby sitter that night, she was still very attractive and was all over me. I never talked to her again. I'm probably an a-hole in her eyes, but I view it as I got rewarded for putting up with her bullshite.
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Girls my age(late 20's) feel entitled to everything, and have a overblown sense of self worth.
I'm 24 and I feel the same way.
This post was edited on 9/27/13 at 2:41 pm
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:51 pm to TeLeFaWx
I think you definitely hit the nail on the head with these girls watching too many rom-coms and wanting to live them out in real life. "I'm going to be just like Real Housewives and not take this shite from men".
I don't think you give females enough credit, they know score. They know how things work. They just happen to not mind drama, and probably even welcome it. Most males, including myself, look at drama bullshite that holds you back from living a happy life. Now sometimes you cant avoid it, but you most definitely dont welcome it.
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I have been the guy that took out a girl with me who was a sloppy drunk
I don't think you give females enough credit, they know score. They know how things work. They just happen to not mind drama, and probably even welcome it. Most males, including myself, look at drama bullshite that holds you back from living a happy life. Now sometimes you cant avoid it, but you most definitely dont welcome it.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:53 pm to DonDraper
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Cray cray doing cray cray things
FIFY
We could only wish the cray cray was female exclusive.
And we knew right about here
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We had relatively good chemistry, but then, I kinda have chemistry with pretty much everyone, because I really like talking to people and winning over complete strangers.
That the bitch was channeling her inner Glenn Close. That "chemistry" she thinks she has is likely a mix of bad alcohol and being a complete slutbag.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 2:55 pm to DonDraper
Just reading the backstory she wrote makes me hate her.
Who says shite like that? Didn't even read the rest of it.
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We had relatively good chemistry, but then, I kinda have chemistry with pretty much everyone, because I really like talking to people and winning over complete strangers.
Who says shite like that? Didn't even read the rest of it.
Posted on 9/27/13 at 3:00 pm to DonDraper
Thank you feminism. Women disgust me now. 90% are sociopath liars that think they are all 9/10's and deserved to be treated like a princess and should have 10/10 CEO Millionaires beating down their door.
frick it I'm staying single the rest of my life. Much happier that way. Chances of meeting a decent female is 1 in like 500 if your lucky.
frick it I'm staying single the rest of my life. Much happier that way. Chances of meeting a decent female is 1 in like 500 if your lucky.
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