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Where do you draw the line with flirting?
Posted on 7/24/15 at 1:53 pm
Posted on 7/24/15 at 1:53 pm
That is, if you're married or in a relationship.
My wife and kids are out of town so I stopped at the bar for a beer and supper last night. 2 ladies came in and sat at the bar next to me and we started chatting. One was trying to get some flirting going, but I didn't oblige her. Admittedly, I didn't find her attractive and might have flirted back had she been. Her friend was attractive, but didn't flirt. Which made me wonder where my wife would have drawn the line. She's not the jealous type, and I told her about the incident when I talked to her last night, even saying I didn't flirt because I didn't think she was attractive.
My wife has playfully flirted with guys in front of me and it's never bothered me, I guess cause I fully trust her to not take it too far. But I don't know where too far would be. Obviously physical contact would be too far, but what about the flirting part?
Sorry, I had 3 beers at lunch and am rambling.
My wife and kids are out of town so I stopped at the bar for a beer and supper last night. 2 ladies came in and sat at the bar next to me and we started chatting. One was trying to get some flirting going, but I didn't oblige her. Admittedly, I didn't find her attractive and might have flirted back had she been. Her friend was attractive, but didn't flirt. Which made me wonder where my wife would have drawn the line. She's not the jealous type, and I told her about the incident when I talked to her last night, even saying I didn't flirt because I didn't think she was attractive.
My wife has playfully flirted with guys in front of me and it's never bothered me, I guess cause I fully trust her to not take it too far. But I don't know where too far would be. Obviously physical contact would be too far, but what about the flirting part?
Sorry, I had 3 beers at lunch and am rambling.
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Posted on 7/24/15 at 2:01 pm to The Spleen
I draw the line when it starts interrupting my football watching. Bitch, I can't concentrate on the game when you're gabbing on the phone with Enrique - take that shite to the kitchen!
Posted on 7/24/15 at 2:09 pm to The Spleen
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Sorry, I had 3 beers at lunch and am rambling.
Lightweight
Posted on 7/24/15 at 2:15 pm to Dawgsontop34
They were IPA's and I still had to do some work stuff.
Posted on 7/24/15 at 2:19 pm to The Spleen
I dunno. I draw the line but it keeps moving.
Posted on 7/24/15 at 2:29 pm to The Spleen
If you're married - don't flirt.
There. Now you don't have to worry about lines and where to draw them.
There. Now you don't have to worry about lines and where to draw them.
Posted on 7/24/15 at 2:42 pm to GoldenDawg
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If you're married - don't flirt.
There. Now you don't have to worry about lines and where to draw them.
This.
If you never take a step towards the line, you'll never worry about crossing it.
Posted on 7/24/15 at 4:16 pm to The Spleen
I was never good at flirting anyways, so I just treat everybody the same 
Posted on 7/24/15 at 4:34 pm to The Spleen
When my nuts are on her chin is when I realize that I've probably taken the flirting a little too far.
Posted on 7/24/15 at 4:43 pm to GoldenDawg
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If you're married - don't flirt.
Posted on 7/24/15 at 4:49 pm to The Spleen
When you're hung like an elephant you don't have to worry about the various members of your harem flirting with other men. 
Posted on 7/24/15 at 5:32 pm to The Spleen
I allow any girl I'm dating to flirt with guys at the bar so they will buy her drinks instead of me.
Saves me money, she gets the attention that she needs. Win Win
Saves me money, she gets the attention that she needs. Win Win
Posted on 7/24/15 at 5:50 pm to The Spleen
3 beers at lunch... 
Havent done that in 20 years. But I am also old enough to remember going out with customers at lunch when they would order martinis. GLAD those days are over.
Havent done that in 20 years. But I am also old enough to remember going out with customers at lunch when they would order martinis. GLAD those days are over.
This post was edited on 7/24/15 at 5:51 pm
Posted on 7/24/15 at 6:39 pm to Pavoloco83
depends on the girl. I'm a natural salesman which means I flirt quite a bit with girls, but I'm not really flirting. If I want to frick you I'm pretty much going to come out and say I want to frick you lol in so many words I don't bother with the small talk. When I'm in small talk mode I'm trying to find clients lol.
I have females that have BFs that flirt with me all the time but I know it will never go anywhere. Don't really see the big deal with it.
I have females that have BFs that flirt with me all the time but I know it will never go anywhere. Don't really see the big deal with it.
Posted on 7/24/15 at 6:42 pm to deltaland
She texts guys when you're not around and receives dick pics via snapchat on the reg
Sorry bro
Sorry bro
Posted on 7/24/15 at 6:49 pm to The Spleen
The difference between flirting and talking is intent. If you're talking to a woman so you can eventually bang her, that's flirting. Otherwise it's just two people talking. Nothing wrong with that.
Posted on 7/24/15 at 10:10 pm to Stonehog
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The difference between flirting and talking is intent. If you're talking to a woman so you can eventually bang her, that's flirting. Otherwise it's just two people talking. Nothing wrong with that.
This is how an "innocent" flirt turns into "honey, I don't know how this could have happened," crying children, and a lot of money to lawyers.
If you are married, don't even allow the door to open and don't allow your spouse to open any doors either.
This post was edited on 7/24/15 at 10:12 pm
Posted on 7/24/15 at 11:33 pm to The Spleen
Married. Don't flirt at all. If women flirt with me, I start talking about my wife.
Posted on 7/25/15 at 2:30 am to Landmass
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This is how an "innocent" flirt turns into
Stopped right there. A flirt in and of itself is not innocent because of the intent. Otherwise it's just a conversation.
Posted on 7/25/15 at 2:45 am to Stonehog
So wise.
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