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re: How long into your relationship did you start using I love you?

Posted on 9/28/15 at 4:47 pm to
Posted by Tiguar
Montana
Member since Mar 2012
33131 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 4:47 pm to
About 5 months before I reciprocated. Your mom started saying it earlier but I like to play hard to get.
Posted by Robert Goulet
Member since Jan 2013
9999 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 4:48 pm to
After she let me do anal.
Posted by sorantable
Member since Dec 2008
48735 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 4:49 pm to
a couple of months
Posted by Govt Tide
Member since Nov 2009
9113 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 4:58 pm to
I'm like Hemphead. I'll say some pretty romantic things but will never use the L word unless I hear it from her first.

I'm actually having this issue now. Have been dating someone for the last few months I like aND respect a lot but I'm simply not in love and I think she can sense it. She wants to hear it but I'm not about to say it if I don't truly mean it. Afraid to break it off completely because I do care for her and want to remain friends although I realize that sadly that's probably not a realistic option.
Posted by DownSouthJukin
Coaching Changes Board
Member since Jan 2014
27239 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 5:01 pm to
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Poor Forrest got the shite end of her stick.


At least she didn't give him the GRIDS.
Posted by PhilipMarlowe
Member since Mar 2013
20493 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 5:03 pm to
Literally said it three dates in when she cooked for me. Broke up with her a month later when she stopped cooking for me. I wasn't feeling the love no more.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 5:07 pm to
quote:

I'm also a sentimental little bitch so I prepared a little speech and told her over a nice dinner at her favorite restaurant.


Embarrassed to admit this but I wrote a letter, and it was pretty early. We both started using it at about 2 and a half months.

Although, sometimes you just meet a person and you know you'll be with them for a while. I knew it from day one.

As an addendum: We've known each other for three months, we've been dating for three months. Is what it is.





Smitten kitten.
Posted by JacketFan77
Tiger, GA
Member since Nov 2012
2554 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 6:55 pm to
Knew it the minute I saw her. 18 years and a a bad marriage later, I finally found her again and told her. Blessed, but damn we both could've saved ourselves some heartache (and lawyer fees) if I'd been more "beta" and went with my heart all those years ago. Thank the good lord for second chances.
This post was edited on 9/28/15 at 6:57 pm
Posted by Vols&Shaft83
Throbbing Member
Member since Dec 2012
69902 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 6:58 pm to
Patton,


We've known each other for a couple of years now, and I want you to know that I love you, in the non-buttfricky kind of way.



Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260299 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 7:12 pm to
I've fallen in love a thousand times, so usually about 15 minutes before first sex. That can be anywhere between 30 minutes and a couple of days after first meeting.
Posted by Supravol22
Member since Jan 2011
14411 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 7:34 pm to
4 months
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 9/28/15 at 11:24 pm to
Can't remember exactly. It was definitely more than 3 months in. I "said" it first, and it was through a handwritten note. Think she actually said the words first, though.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 3:25 am to
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Can't remember exactly. It was definitely more than 3 months in. I "said" it first, and it was through a handwritten note. Think she actually said the words first, though.


Great minds think alike. And she definitely said it first.
Posted by mwlewis
JeffCo
Member since Nov 2010
21218 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:13 am to
With my ex I think we were around the 4 month mark when we said it. I've been dating this new girl for a little over a month so will advise.
Posted by VagueMessage
Fayetteville, AR
Member since Jun 2013
3903 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:42 am to
Three months. We've been together for six years, so I guess maybe I didn't jump the gun and say it too soon.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 3:10 pm to
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Three months. We've been together for six years, so I guess maybe I didn't jump the gun and say it too soon.


I don't think it can ever be too soon if you really know it.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70902 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 3:20 pm to
3-4 months in

been together 5 years now

gettin' married and shite
Posted by everytrueson
Los Angeles, CA
Member since Mar 2012
5893 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 3:28 pm to
I am just going to leave this here

Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 4:51 pm to
Yessir!
Posted by Wishnitwas1998
where TN, MS, and AL meet
Member since Oct 2010
58203 posts
Posted on 9/29/15 at 7:29 pm to
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I told her because she was mad at me and I wanted her to not be mad at me anymore



This cracks me up bc I've sooooooooooooo done it before
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