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re: How do you deal with a insecure/jealous person in a relationship?

Posted on 3/26/14 at 5:32 pm to
Posted by Wanderin Reb
Gallifrey
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 3/26/14 at 5:32 pm to
Break it off. If they can't learn to trust you then WTF are you in that relationship for?
Posted by rootisback
Member since Mar 2014
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Posted on 3/26/14 at 7:10 pm to
don't conduct a relationship with an insecure/jealous person. Tell them like it is and end it. Then engage in the nastiest intercourse you can imagine with them. Explore all orifices. Just for fun, because its over and you wont see them again.
Posted by MsGarrison
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:22 pm to
UPDATE: The other party brought their parents into the relationship to talk to us and they suggested counseling..

This whole weekend, the other party, has been whining, crying, moping around and looking for attention from parents n friends.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:27 pm to
quote:

How do you deal with a insecure/jealous person in a relationship?


Lawn Darts?
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:28 pm to
get out of that quick. It is never good when a adult can't handle their own business. If parents are over involved then its time to bounce.

Posted by MsGarrison
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:35 pm to
My god.. It's horrible. Be an adult and handle things yourself.. Dont go running to mama and papa. Then I threatened to have the lights disconnected since theyre in my name (plus I have my original place) and they stated, it was taken care of.. So I get on the phone with Entergy and they unplug the house phone to stop me.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:37 pm to
that girl is going to be tainted goods as long as her parents try to step in and handle things. it would be better if you were on your cell and they unplugged the house phone.

eta: how old is this girl?
This post was edited on 3/30/14 at 12:37 pm
Posted by MsGarrison
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:39 pm to
37.. No job.. No car.. No nothing... Just sits at home and plays on fb and the internet all day.
This post was edited on 3/30/14 at 12:41 pm
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:42 pm to
holy shite, how did you put up with that?
no car is a huge deal breaker for me. Im not driving someone around all the damn time. at being 37 and calling in her parents, I wouldn't even sit down with them because it is so absurd
Posted by MsGarrison
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:42 pm to
Then on top of that, tries to see who ive slept with in the past who I may be fb friends with.. I ve made it clear i dont post or utilize fb as they do. She is always GLUED to that fricking phone. She thinks she is always right and knows everything. When in reality, doesnt.
Posted by TheDrunkenTigah
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:44 pm to
quote:

Be an adult and handle things yourself..


now I know you're trollin
Posted by MsGarrison
Steele Town LOL
Member since Nov 2009
22009 posts
Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:46 pm to
Because i really do like here beyond, when she is crazy insecure.. But then I think, she may see me as her ticket where she can be a stay at home type of person. She wants to control everything but doesnt do anything to help.. Very argumentative. That's how she got fired from her job. You dont insult both of ur bosses and think theyre gonna just look the other way.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:48 pm to
For me that personality is way too much to overcome even if she is a 10 in looks and i like everything else.
Posted by MsGarrison
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:52 pm to
last night she slept very distant in the bed and had her back to me the entire night. but as I left to go to work she said, have a good day and I love u. she is fricking bipolar.. she uses her childhood for the reason why she acts this way all the time. At 37, you need to have some stability. And I dont see much of it at all.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:54 pm to
run from bipolar girls, trust me
Posted by Kentucker
Cincinnati, KY
Member since Apr 2013
19351 posts
Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:56 pm to
Sounds like you're the one with the problem, literally and figuratively. You've got a decision to make: Leave or continue to be dominated by this overbearing person. It's your call.
Posted by MsGarrison
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:57 pm to
Im thinking about it... Everytime I introduce her to another chick she always asks, did you sleep with her..

Who cares if i did or didnt.. Sheesh

Posted by MsGarrison
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:58 pm to
true
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 3/30/14 at 12:58 pm to
as someone that has dealt with crazy chicks you need to leave. it will never get better and it will only cost you money and your sanity if you stay
Posted by MsGarrison
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Member since Nov 2009
22009 posts
Posted on 3/30/14 at 1:01 pm to
its costing me gas everyday.. the commute from work to there (round trip)is 30 freaking dollars MINIMUM. Then on top of that I have to pay bills there on top of my place in Laplace til I rent it out.
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