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re: Has anyone here dated an Asian woman from Asia?

Posted on 9/29/16 at 4:37 pm to
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 9/29/16 at 4:37 pm to
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They tend to be racist towards blacks if I am correct.



There sure are a lot of black military guys married to Asian women. Idk how true that statement is.



Yeah, I've heard the "Asians hate blacks" trope my whole life, but never experienced it firsthand. Every one I've met is cool af.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 9/29/16 at 4:41 pm to
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Yeah, I've heard the "Asians hate blacks" trope my whole life, but never experienced it firsthand. Every one I've met is cool af.


I'm not sure it's a hatred as much as it is they just don't have the filter to hide what they think like whites have learned to do in private discourse.

If I catch myself thinking something racist, I chastise myself. It's not on purpose, but at times I think it's just a natural response (us vs. them).

With Asians, they just say exactly what's on their mind, even if it's insensitive to the target person. People in China give no fricks about Negroid/Capoid rights. Really, the rights of any minority.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 9/29/16 at 4:44 pm to
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I'm not sure it's a hatred as much as it is they just don't have the filter to hide what they think like whites have learned to do in private discourse.


If that were the case, I think I'd have had more problems with them as opposed to none at all.

Gotten along great both stateside and in Asia. Good people.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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Posted on 9/29/16 at 4:50 pm to
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If that were the case, I think I'd have had more problems with them as opposed to none at all.

Gotten along great both stateside and in Asia. Good people.


I know this is gonna be shocking, but most racism isn't going to be done to your face. I dated Asians in the past, and I can't think of one that didn't have a lot of racism in their family.

Even here in Mexico. And not just toward black dudes, pretty much anyone other than Asian.

Going deep Tropical Thunder.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
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Posted on 9/29/16 at 5:00 pm to
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I know this is gonna be shocking, but most racism isn't going to be done to your face.


You act like I don't know this

You just got through saying Asians don't have the filter whites do. That means more overt racism would manifest. So....make up your mind

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dated Asians in the past, and I can't think of one that didn't have a lot of racism in their family


Never dated one, but wouldn't have had a problem doing so. Sorry you had negative experiences, though

Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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Posted on 9/29/16 at 5:05 pm to
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You just got through saying Asians don't have the filter whites do. That means more overt racism would manifest. So....make up your mind


Most people who have been racist have had the courtesy not to do it even with people who they're comfortable with outside of their family. I've had very racist friends who almost never did it in my presence, especially with racial epithets.

With my Asian girlfriends, they would just say the N-Word like it was nothing outside of the presence of blacks. Most whites I've known are afraid to say it even in academic settings.

It's actually quite similar here in Mexico, they have no fear from using it, and it's almost as though the word has no power whatsoever.

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Never dated one, but wouldn't have had a problem doing so. Sorry you had negative experiences, though


It's worth it.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 9/29/16 at 5:19 pm to
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With my Asian girlfriends, they would just say the N-Word like it was nothing outside of the presence of blacks.


They were saying "ninja," you presumptuous bastard

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It's actually quite similar here in Mexico, they have no fear from using it, and it's almost as though the word has no power whatsoever.



Asian dude I hoop with uses it all the time

Meh, it's like any demographic. Some are racist, some aren't. Glad I haven't had any run-ins. The prevailing narrative is bunk, though.
This post was edited on 9/29/16 at 5:20 pm
Posted by El Guapo21
Tuscaloosa
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 9/29/16 at 6:38 pm to
I dated a Korean girl for a while. She was decent in bed, but school and studying were her #1 priority.

One day her mom just showed up from Korea... and wouldn't speak one damn word to me. Would just stare at me with her cold arse look.

Asian women are fun to date and screw, but something in them changes when they get older and they become hard and cold. At least the ones that stay in whatever Asian country they're from.

All that said, my mother in law is from Thailand, and she's hard to deal with 95% of the time. They have their ways, and what you say be damned.
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