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re: Early Bird Monday Morning IM thread

Posted on 5/13/13 at 11:51 am to
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 11:51 am to
I'd have her send you the texts he sent (either via screen shot or forwarding them to you) so you have some proof before you broach the subject.

At the very least I think you need to say something. I know people who have had their arse beat for far less.
Posted by bamafan425
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 11:52 am to
That's tough. I'd probably text him and say that the girls are not happy with these proposals and it might be best to knock it off with them (at least your ex who talked to you about it). If he gets defensive and starts getting mad at you, which I think he will, let him have it.
Posted by Patton
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 11:53 am to
I mean one of my so called good friends bassicly tried to turn my ex gf into a real life whore.


And has never acted like there was anything going on. I'm mad
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 11:55 am to
Especially since you're talking multiple girls and not just your exes too. What's your other roommate have to say about it?

Maybe you both need to sit him down and say something.
Posted by Patton
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 11:56 am to
He seemed to take it a lot better than I did. But I don't think he thinks that the old roomate offered his ex the same three way deal. That one was just to my ex as far as I know.
Posted by bamafan425
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 11:56 am to
Keep a level head until he starts being an arse.

"Hey man. Sally has come to me and told me about some of these proposals/offers that you have made. She's not very happy about it and I don't blame her. I would suggest you not contact her again."
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 11:58 am to
Yeah, it might be prudent that you both be there when you talk to him. To at least keep you from beating his arse.
Posted by bamafan425
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:00 pm to
Passing by Oxford now Belle. Should I blow a kiss to Dr. Jones for you?
Posted by Patton
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:02 pm to
The thing is when he moved out he moved home which is about 3 hours away. So confronting him in person is not an option unless he comes back here. Which he has no reason too.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:05 pm to
Sure.

Patton, then I'd confront him over the phone (a call, not text) with your buddy there to back you up on it. Maybe that'll at least stop him from doing it to others. Still all kinds of fricked up either way.
Posted by McRebel42
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:05 pm to
quote:

I'd have her send you the texts he sent (either via screen shot or forwarding them to you) so you have some proof before you broach the subject.

At the very least I think you need to say something. I know people who have had their arse beat for far less.


@Patton ^^This^^
Posted by Patton
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:07 pm to
The only problem is my ex probably won't send me those messages because she hates it when people hate her.


Part of me is thinking just saying frick it. I don't care she's not my problem anymore. Let her other exes and bf handle it. Is that wrong?
Posted by bamafan425
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:10 pm to
Even if you don't have he proof. This guy is gonna know that he's been caught. He can dispute it all he wants but still knows that people know he's a creep. Wether that will stop him or not, who knows?
Posted by tduecen
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:10 pm to
Well if she is an ex I wouldn't care.... But I would bring it up around him as a joke and watch for his reaction
Posted by mwlewis
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:11 pm to
Thats fricked up man. That guy isnt a real friend.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:11 pm to
I'd still say something. If only for the reason that it might deter him from doing it to someone else.
Posted by bamafan425
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:13 pm to
You should catfish the frick outta him with some fake girl.

Keep it and tell him if he ever contacts a girl you know again you'll post it to Facebook or send it to his parents.
Posted by Patton
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:13 pm to
I'm thinking.


"Hey man why did you offer 18 thousand dollars to my ex to be in a threeway?
Posted by Patton
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:14 pm to
quote:

Keep it and tell him if he ever contacts a girl you know again you'll post it to Facebook or send it to his parents.


I like this
Posted by tduecen
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Posted on 5/13/13 at 12:15 pm to
Go out to the bar and when he is talking to a girl, walk up to them and tell her, "just wait to see what happens when he offers you 18k" then walk away
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