re: OM player Charles Wiley arrested for domestic violence

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instigator and primary culprit.

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Not true. In order for both parties to be arrested there has to be equal proof that she laid her hands on him as well. They do not take you to jail for instigating an argument. However, if you even so much as scratch your significant other (male or female) you will go to jail. A judge will likely throw the charges out if both were willing participants in a shoving match. If she left marks on him while defending herself, hers will be thrown out, and his will not.