re: The gayest city in the world - this is a microcosm of what is to come ...

I don't think this thread is about whether it is right or wrong to be gay. I think most people roll their ideas at talking to 3-4 year olds about whether they self identify as the the opposite gender of their physical characteristics. My kids are mixed race and he was shocked at about age 6 to hear that he was part one race and part the other. Totally didn't think about such things. And when he found out he didn't care.

I just don't think that age 3 or 4 is a good time to let children make life choices that could be way off and have serious consequences. Just treat them like their birth gender until you have reason to believe otherwise.

I knew a guy whose son wanted to wear girl clothes and have girl stuff when he was a boy. They tried to be cool with it and all of the sudden he just did a 180 and demanded not to be treated that way. It was really strange to be around. But I am glad they didn't start pushing him in that direction.