re: Need dating advice

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Cut your losses. It gets worse.

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This is probably he best advice. If you are having a difficult time being around her kids & pets, then end it. You should be able to go over to her house & relax as well regardless if she has a nice deck or not but obviously you can't or won't. Before you end it make sure you sit her down and tell her everything you're feeling because maybe, just maybe, she'll fix it.