Who Here Has Had This Feeling?

Sorry. You've caught the ghey

I am a loner for the most part. The only people I talk to regularly are my father and my best friend who I have known for 20 years. I have other friends and acquaintances, but only hang out with them on occasion. Like I have a concert buddy and an Alabama football buddy, but I have never hung out with them at the same time.

There's nothing wrong with wanting to be alone on Sunday, fwiw.

About the dating, I thought the same thing until right before I turned 21. Eventually you'll develop a want for a relationship, I think, unless you're asexual, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's complicated, but I understand how you feel, I think. If you want to PM me, email me at birdfrombama@aol.com.

I've never had a feeling.

See a doctor if you're sad.

I've been there before man. I wasn't necessarily a loner a lot but I wasn't accepted by many people. After having all the fun with the ladies and the goofy bro times, I thought what I wanted at the moment was a chick to tell me how great I was or at least some dude to smack talk how much he's gonna kick my arse at a video game.

But I got to the point (I'm 20 as well), I just turned my give a frick switch. Me and my brother go out and have a great time at the movies, clubs, among other things. Women are nothing more than a distraction and a bank account destroyer in marriage these days with few exceptions.

I will never marry because I don't want kids and I have no desire to be stuck with someone who'll probably screw my life over in 10-20 years. So do what you must. Don't let life get you down. And frick all these people in this thread. Just typical rantards.

Hope everything goes well for you going forward.

I basically have a pretty close circle of people I hang out with along with the SO and family. I'm pretty introverted in that respect. There's a difference in keeping a close circle and being legitimately unhappy/lonely though. You should be able to garner happiness without outside influence (i.e. other people). If you're unable to do that, you may want to talk to someone about it.

shite man, appreciate your solitude. Being around people all the time blows. I've always valued my alone time. Make yourself happy and use other relationships to supplement your happiness, not to make your happiness.

Get some structure in your life and start some sort of exercise routine, even if it's power walking or some shite. If you're not a good looking guy, learn to munch box. Hell, learn that anyway, it will serve you well in a few years.

I don't get the whole "feeling better talking to internet people vs real people" thing. I guess it's a generational thing. Not knowing who I'm talking to on here still freaks me out.

I have a tendency to isolate myself from others, friends and family included. It's not something I'm proud of, but it happens, nonetheless.

I've also learned that it's smarter to have a few great friends, than a lot of shitty friends.

I can somewhat relate. I've always had a hard time making new friends. Part of that is me being somewhat anti-social and being diagnosed with social anxiety. The weird thing is I'm looked at as the social butterfly in my family. I've tended to always gravitate towards the social butterflies. Kind of the yin to my yang. My best friend has never met a stranger, nor has my wife. I'm terrified of going into a social situation where I don't know anyone.