re: Guys that fall for women with Kids

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Is there anything more pathetic then a guy taking care of another mans kid? I'm not talking about a male in his late 30's/40's who already has his own kids, or passed on having kids earlier in life, and now lives with their kids.

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I think there's a LOT of things more pathetic. I've known more then my fair share of single moms who are pretty well adjusted and are unfortunately single moms for reasons out of their control. For instance I have a coworker, full-time teacher, whose ex-husband was killed in a car accident. Since he passed 3 years ago I only know of one guy she's even introduced her kids to and that's someone she had been dating for at least 6 months.

Now it's not a situation for everyone. I've also seen my fair share of guys who are in it for just pussy and DGAF about playing house with a baby momma to get it.* Those are the guys I find far more pathetic.

Of course it sounds like the situation you described is trash just being trash. But you can find plenty of that in women (and men) without kids as well so that's not anything that's exclusive.

* FWIW, I'm not talking about situations where you have a woman with kids who knows she's with a guy who is just in it for arse. I'm talking about guys who are told by a baby momma that she wants a committed relationship but he still uses her for arse.