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Relationship problems (part II)

Posted on 6/17/13 at 4:41 am
Posted by olddawg26
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 6/17/13 at 4:41 am
Some of you may remember my adventure giving away my gf's cat after she purposely bought one and brought it (against my will) into MY house.

Amidst the chaos, I created a match.com profile which I forgot about since we worked things out. She found it yesterday and flipped. Unplugged my router and drove off with it. She also threw a key at me saying its over and it's not even a key to my house. Not sure where she is but I've been up all night trying to call her phone with no luck. I'm having to use my data plan on my ipad to write all this. Advice?
Posted by cubsfan5150
NWA
Member since Nov 2007
18623 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 4:46 am to
How'd she find it?
Posted by olddawg26
Member since Jan 2013
26533 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 4:48 am to
Left my laptop open and she searched for something starting with m
Posted by GeauxWarTigers
Auburn
Member since Oct 2010
18046 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 4:48 am to
quote:

I created a match.com profile which I forgot about since we worked things out. She found it yesterday and flipped.


Just tell her it was from before y'all hooked up?
Posted by Merck
Tuscaloosa
Member since Nov 2009
1693 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 4:50 am to
You got rid of the crazy bitch, let her go. Trust me.
This post was edited on 6/17/13 at 4:51 am
Posted by Arkla Missy
Ark-La-Miss
Member since Jan 2013
10288 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 4:50 am to
Well, I'm so glad I woke up early & decided to glance over td.

Idk what to tell you. I'd still be pissed about the cat if I was her. Anyway, I'm sure you'll get a lot of quality, helpful responses here. Just keep checking back. Good luck.
Posted by olddawg26
Member since Jan 2013
26533 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 4:56 am to
I have NO idea what this key goes to. Wtf
Posted by Arkla Missy
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Member since Jan 2013
10288 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:00 am to
What kind of key is it? Size?

Meh, she probly was just so pissed, she just threw the first one she got off the key ring.
Posted by olddawg26
Member since Jan 2013
26533 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:03 am to
It looks like a key to a gate or something small. Round head, short shaft. (Shut up)
Posted by Arkla Missy
Ark-La-Miss
Member since Jan 2013
10288 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:07 am to


Idk, I'm not familiar with those kinds of "keys."
Posted by olddawg26
Member since Jan 2013
26533 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:12 am to
Like to a mailbox or gate. I think she found it when she was out in the yard and just threw it at me.
Posted by Arkla Missy
Ark-La-Miss
Member since Jan 2013
10288 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:16 am to
Well, when she realizes she's missing a key that she needs, assuming it's hers, she'll be back.

Why were you in such a hurry to go on a dating site after you broke up before?
Not being nosy, but that's a question you can probably expect from her. It would be the first one I'd ask.
Posted by cubsfan5150
NWA
Member since Nov 2007
18623 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:18 am to
Just turn the tables on her. Tell her you signed up to search for her since you thought she was on the site... and you couldn't figure out how to delete it afterward.
Posted by olddawg26
Member since Jan 2013
26533 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:20 am to
I dunno, just thought shite was over between us since the damn kitten was such a big deal. I even got her another one but she said it "wasn't the same". I know it's not a healthy relationship, but I do care about her. I would however like my router back.
Posted by olddawg26
Member since Jan 2013
26533 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:21 am to
I have a few excuses lined up, I just can't seem to find her at the moment. I'm pretty tired now though.
Posted by Arkla Missy
Ark-La-Miss
Member since Jan 2013
10288 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:30 am to
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I would however like my router back.


Yeah, that does suck.


I think everyone goes through an "unhealthy relationship" at least once. Just an FYI, if shite like this keeps happening, it isn't gonna work, and is probably best to end it before it gets worse & save both of yourselves from more drama. If you do want to try to make the relationship healthy & try to save it, you both have to work at it. Her reacting this way, and not just asking you about the profile isn't the way to do that, imo.

Posted by Mr.Sinister
South Carolina
Member since Dec 2012
4956 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:40 am to
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I have a few excuses lined up, I just can't seem to find her at the moment. I'm pretty tired now though.


Let her go it's not gonna work. It's obvious your both immature and toxic for each other. Chalk that router up to collateral damage and go buy another. Leave her be or you gonna end up missing body parts from this estrogen filled psycho. Just my $0.02 and experience from dating a long line of crazy split tails.
Posted by Arkla Missy
Ark-La-Miss
Member since Jan 2013
10288 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:45 am to
quote:

Just my $0.02 and experience from dating a long line of crazy split tails.

So, why do you keep choosing the psycho ones? Not all "split tails" are crazy, at least not certifiably.
Posted by Mr.Sinister
South Carolina
Member since Dec 2012
4956 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:55 am to
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So, why do you keep choosing the psycho ones?


I found a good one and married her and youngen #2 will be here in august. But my past is filled with a few crazies because they were excellent in bed and it was worth trying to "fix" them for it. But boy was i wrong, So after putting a few years of drama on my mid 20's I decided I was doing it all wrong.

Just trying to help our dawg friend here save a couple years he will want back later
This post was edited on 6/17/13 at 5:56 am
Posted by Arkla Missy
Ark-La-Miss
Member since Jan 2013
10288 posts
Posted on 6/17/13 at 5:59 am to
Well, good for you & congrats on the new baby.

I agree with your advice, btw. I had a couple of those toxic relationships when I was younger, as well, and let them go on way too long. Hope the younger ones listen to voices of experience.
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