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re: "Dear Killz" Advice and Help Column

Posted on 3/20/13 at 3:52 pm to
Posted by Alahunter
Member since Jan 2008
90739 posts
Posted on 3/20/13 at 3:52 pm to
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"I appreciate that you put your feelings on the line the way you did, but I truly love you like a sister. The last thing I want is for you to be upset or our friendship to become awkward. I can't imagine you not being my best friend. I would be destroyed if we stopped being friends. We shouldn't complicate the beautiful relationship we have with each other."


I see a problem with that. In a way, that's kinda selfish and is asking alot of the other person, if they have stronger feelings. Saying you would be destroyed by not having her around, kinda minimalizes what she may be going through, being around someone they love, and seeing them with someone else in the way they want to be. No easy way to deal with that kind of situation.
Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 3/20/13 at 4:04 pm to
Alahunter

quote:

I see a problem with that


You're right. But at least he can try. Put the ball in her court. Allow her to either accept platonic friendship or the alternative.

There's no easy solution to this situation, in my opinion.
This post was edited on 3/20/13 at 4:06 pm
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