re: What we are seeing here is parity in college football.

What parity. The SEC is 16-6 in BCS games including 8-1 in title games. In contrast the Golden Domers are an impressive 0-3 and were blown out in each loss. By the way the only other BCS conference with a winning record in BCS games is the Pac-12 with a 12-7 record.
The SEC has earned the right to gloat. ND has not. You should probably tread lightly until you actually win a BCS game.