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A big thank you to every member here.

Posted on 12/16/20 at 6:44 pm
Posted by Commander Data
Baton Rouge, La
Member since Dec 2016
7289 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 6:44 pm
I appreciate every prayer, every donation and I hope you guys know that I will return the favor should you need me. I would give up both arms for five more minutes with my wife. I am not in good shape: I wish I were strong enough to be here for my kids but I am not. They are with grandma. I attempted something very selfish and I am glad it didn’t work for my kids sake.

My wife’s sister had my wife’s phone and overheard me cursing some posters that said bad things about me so she went to the oot to defend her sister snd me:. I don’t know I what she said but chicken knew it was her and I hope you believe me.

Please pray for me again. I have to live for me kids snd they aren’t here right now. I am alone with my thoughts and that is a dangerous thing. Forgive me if I have offended anyone here. I




Posted by TideSaint
Hill Country
Member since Sep 2008
75837 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 6:47 pm to
Get some help.

I was in your shoes once. It isn't easy.

Posted by Cobrasize
Birmingham
Member since Jun 2013
49680 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 6:49 pm to
I’ve been praying for you and will continue.

One step in front of the other until you get adjusted.
Posted by FWBFLlaw
Member since Aug 2018
2389 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 6:56 pm to
I have been praying and thinking about you man. You got to do it for your kids. If you need help, reach out. Call 1-800-273-8255. They can help.
Posted by Bear88
Member since Oct 2014
13172 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 7:07 pm to
Hang in there bud.... May not feel like it now but things will get better
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62721 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 7:09 pm to
my best suggestion is to take everything you do, everything you think about, everything you need just one day at a time.
Trying to grasp everything is overwhelming for anyone, but breaking it down one day at a time, it can make each step you take be as good or better than the last step.
Posted by bamabkj
Member since Dec 2015
695 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 7:10 pm to
Stay strong for your kids. Doesn't hurt to lean on God either.
Posted by biclops
Member since Oct 2011
6149 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 7:10 pm to
CD, glad to hear you are still with us. I feared the worst and am glad that fear did not materialize. We're all here for you and want nothing but the best for you. Roll Tide brother, and please take as much care of yourself as you possibly can. You need it, your kids need for you to have it, and you deserve it.
Posted by Sneaky__Sally
Member since Jul 2015
12364 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 7:15 pm to
Everyone gets knocked down, just take it day by day and try to focus on what you still have. When I was going through something similar (not the same but very similar), I had to learn just to make it to the end of the day, try to sleep and in the morning get up, get out of bed and focus on just making it to the end of the day again.

It will get better with time, just have to make it through enough days. Good Luck
This post was edited on 12/16/20 at 7:19 pm
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
42108 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 7:32 pm to
We're still praying for you, CD. Just keep pushing forward day by day. Focus on yourself and your kids.
Posted by prattalumni
Member since Sep 2012
772 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 7:59 pm to
I am a man of faith, and I will pray for enormous strength over any foul spirit that tries to convince you that you're destined to leave this earth before your time. Take hold of the LORD, he is calling for you!
This post was edited on 12/16/20 at 8:01 pm
Posted by Gj4Bama
Roll Tide!
Member since Nov 2006
829 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 8:04 pm to
I’m glad that you’re hanging in there. I will continue to pray for you! Keep your head up!!!
Posted by VanBasten9
Land of The White Elephants
Member since May 2012
1384 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 10:31 pm to
“At the lowest ebb.... is the turn of the TIDE”

Start strong, CD!
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 10:50 pm to
I hope you get the help you need, brother. A lot of have been there with issues. You can get yourself under control and truly live life again. Praying for you and your family.
Posted by PowHound
The Peoples Moderator
Member since Jul 2014
6843 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 11:16 pm to
All is not lost; she lives on in those children. You will catch glimpses of her in their faces, their smiles, their laughter.

They will need you to show them the way. Even if you don't know the way if you at least try... they will somehow show you the path forward.

Dedicate your life to nurturing and protecting her/your greatest achievement. I dont know either of you, but it's hard for me to imagine her last words being anything other than "promise me you'll take care of the kids."

One day at a time. Best of luck.
Posted by TidalSurge1
Ft Walton Beach
Member since Sep 2016
36467 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 11:21 pm to
quote:

Please pray for me again. I have to live for me kids snd they aren’t here right now. I am alone with my thoughts and that is a dangerous thing. Forgive me if I have offended anyone here.

We're praying for you brother. But you've got to pray too, with faith. You don't have to feel alone. God will be with you if you want him to.
This post was edited on 12/17/20 at 8:40 am
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