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re: my ex left me again and its tearing me apart (Please give me some advice/insight)
Posted on 2/22/15 at 7:25 am to MsGarrison
Posted on 2/22/15 at 7:25 am to MsGarrison
She's not a good person.
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Posted on 2/22/15 at 7:41 am to MsGarrison
Is her name Lisa? Is Lisa tearing you apart?
Posted on 2/22/15 at 7:44 am to MsGarrison
Her = sadist.
You = masochist.
Seems like a relationship made in hell.
You = masochist.
Seems like a relationship made in hell.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 8:08 am to MsGarrison
#1 - Listen to SavageOrangeJug. He's doling out good advice.
#2 - You're almost there. I'd say you're coming out of depression and into bargaining. Get to acceptance and move on with your life. Your life isn't over. Your career isn't over. In the big picture, you are going to be alright.
Let her go to Florida and start again. Stop with the contact and bargaining with her.
#2 - You're almost there. I'd say you're coming out of depression and into bargaining. Get to acceptance and move on with your life. Your life isn't over. Your career isn't over. In the big picture, you are going to be alright.
Let her go to Florida and start again. Stop with the contact and bargaining with her.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 8:14 am to MsGarrison
You may not realize this, but there are 3.5 BILLION other pussies out there. Your ancestors fricked one and moved on. You shame them by letting her hold you down and frick you.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 8:21 am to auisssa
Thanks for that graphic. I feel as if she used me this second time to get thru the breakup she had me while she was going thru the motions and once she got her fulfillment she left. I'm still grieving and bargaining at the same time.
She told my previous ex over the phone that she was a good person and I was bad for her. As if, I caused this all of this. I'm not perfect but this time it's been all her. She tried to ruin my relationship with my previous ex while talking to her.
I go from grieving to anger back grieving to depression. This is sick. Then I see on my Netflix account she has been watching torment (movie) and scared straight (reality tv show)
She told my previous ex over the phone that she was a good person and I was bad for her. As if, I caused this all of this. I'm not perfect but this time it's been all her. She tried to ruin my relationship with my previous ex while talking to her.
I go from grieving to anger back grieving to depression. This is sick. Then I see on my Netflix account she has been watching torment (movie) and scared straight (reality tv show)
Posted on 2/22/15 at 8:29 am to MsGarrison
If you could completely forget about her overnight (which I know you cannot) she'd immediately be that caring, apologetic loving person again overnight. That's what makes her suck. She can act like she loves you and anyone else but it's all an insecure ploy that won't allow her to be happy and also makes it to where she has to have a backup plan.
She has head snakes and you need to find a way to run. There are much better people out there. Find a deserving woman that'll appreciate the things you do for her. Find someone who inspires you.
Lose all contact with that bitch if she can tear you down physically, mentally and financially and not give a frick.
She has head snakes and you need to find a way to run. There are much better people out there. Find a deserving woman that'll appreciate the things you do for her. Find someone who inspires you.
Lose all contact with that bitch if she can tear you down physically, mentally and financially and not give a frick.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 8:30 am to MsGarrison
quote:stop trolling lsu fans.
my ex left me again and its tearing me apart (Please give me some advice/insight)
Posted on 2/22/15 at 8:53 am to MsGarrison
You are by far the biggest wimp I've ever seen! You need your man card stripped.
Quit contacting her! She's using your contact as a way to get rid of you.
If you get her back, you'll regret it. Also, your friends are Sick of hearing about your drama with this whore.
She got you fired and you think she gives one frick about you?
If you're trolling, bravo. If not, your a world class bitch.
The other guy is fricking her when he wants.
In the future, if you suspect a girl is cheating on you, there is no relationship
Let me be crystal clear, she don't even like you
Quit contacting her! She's using your contact as a way to get rid of you.
If you get her back, you'll regret it. Also, your friends are Sick of hearing about your drama with this whore.
She got you fired and you think she gives one frick about you?
If you're trolling, bravo. If not, your a world class bitch.
The other guy is fricking her when he wants.
In the future, if you suspect a girl is cheating on you, there is no relationship
Let me be crystal clear, she don't even like you
Posted on 2/22/15 at 9:01 am to MsGarrison
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I love her unconditionally like a parent loves their child. No matter how bad your kid is you always love them. That's how I feel about her.
Seems like you are in a co-dependent relationship. I would recommend counseling. Good luck.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 9:13 am to MsGarrison
The same advice I gave you the last time, dumb shite.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 9:16 am to MsGarrison
It took me awhile to realize that this was not an LSU troll and you were serious.
I have compassion on you, dude. I really do.
Here's the thing: I know that you love her and this is tearing you up. That is a real emotion and it is where you are. I get that. You are in pain.
But ...
RUN AWAY!!!!
She will not change. If you marry her, the problems will only grow bigger and bigger. People think that marriage fixes things, but it only makes things worse. She doesn't love you - she doesn't know how to love anyone but herself.
It's not you - it's her. She is broken and I know it is sad to say that but she needs to get straight herself.
Life is too short to commit to someone like that. I am one who believes that when you marry, it is till death do you part. Once kids get involved, divorce is such a mess and it messes up the kids. You DO NOT want to raise kids with this woman. The fact that she doesn't care that she screwed up your job is the real kicker. Taking away a man's livelihood is a serious abusive violation. She is an abuser and you need to get the heck out of there.
I feel bad for you. I really do. I know that this is tought, but cut the chord, experience the pain now, and move on. And then do some work to figure out why you got involved with this in the first place.
I have compassion on you, dude. I really do.
Here's the thing: I know that you love her and this is tearing you up. That is a real emotion and it is where you are. I get that. You are in pain.
But ...
RUN AWAY!!!!
She will not change. If you marry her, the problems will only grow bigger and bigger. People think that marriage fixes things, but it only makes things worse. She doesn't love you - she doesn't know how to love anyone but herself.
It's not you - it's her. She is broken and I know it is sad to say that but she needs to get straight herself.
Life is too short to commit to someone like that. I am one who believes that when you marry, it is till death do you part. Once kids get involved, divorce is such a mess and it messes up the kids. You DO NOT want to raise kids with this woman. The fact that she doesn't care that she screwed up your job is the real kicker. Taking away a man's livelihood is a serious abusive violation. She is an abuser and you need to get the heck out of there.
I feel bad for you. I really do. I know that this is tought, but cut the chord, experience the pain now, and move on. And then do some work to figure out why you got involved with this in the first place.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 9:19 am to TT9
those that troll LSU fans have bad things that happen to them
anyways live by the one chance rule. every girl gets one chance and that is it. you can't keep giving chance after chance because then it becomes a cycle. 1 serious round of dating, they frick it up then move on and only talk to them if its a situation to frick them.
anyways live by the one chance rule. every girl gets one chance and that is it. you can't keep giving chance after chance because then it becomes a cycle. 1 serious round of dating, they frick it up then move on and only talk to them if its a situation to frick them.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 9:24 am to AlaTiger
Also, if this is a troll - and with you, that is a reasonable expectation - its beyond pathetic.
If it isn't, the whole situation is just way too much drama. Trust me. Don't marry a girl full of drama. Marry a woman who will work hard, love other people, love you, and make a life and home for you and think about more than just herself. Marry someone who is a good person down deep and who isn't superficial. Marry someone who puts you first and you do the same for her. DON'T marry someone because of how she makes you feel about yourself because those feelings don't last and you get all needy and NO OTHER PERSON can fix what is wrong inside of you or complete you or crap like that.
Marry a good person. Yes, you want her to be attractive, but usually the prettiest girls have the biggest emotional problems because they get their butt kissed their whole life. There is a balance. Marry a good woman instead of just an OT 10.
If it isn't, the whole situation is just way too much drama. Trust me. Don't marry a girl full of drama. Marry a woman who will work hard, love other people, love you, and make a life and home for you and think about more than just herself. Marry someone who is a good person down deep and who isn't superficial. Marry someone who puts you first and you do the same for her. DON'T marry someone because of how she makes you feel about yourself because those feelings don't last and you get all needy and NO OTHER PERSON can fix what is wrong inside of you or complete you or crap like that.
Marry a good person. Yes, you want her to be attractive, but usually the prettiest girls have the biggest emotional problems because they get their butt kissed their whole life. There is a balance. Marry a good woman instead of just an OT 10.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 9:46 am to AlaTiger
This is not a troll. I swear.
I appreciate your words. I'm still in shock how just last week she was so kind and loving making all these promises. The move to Florida was suppose to be mutual And we were suppose to move this weekend or early this week. We discussed this after she destroyed my life. We decided to start somewhere new away from Louisiana. The thing is for her to run out on me this past week she had to be thinking that long before then. She was so adamant about looking in my phone seeing who im calling texting.... I gave her my phone to show she could trust me and see I wAsnt doing anything. She didn't like me being on this site. Rewind to valentines day I went to shower and she put a card on the bed and it said lets turn our phones off and have no distractions. She also said, there are no words to describe how she feels about me and told me to be hers. So I get out the shower and she was outside smoking (which she said she only does when she is stressing). But then she comes in and she has her phone in her pocket and then takes it in the bathroom which is a big no no for us. She gets out the shower and sees that I'm on this site and references the card and the no cell phone comment. I get irritated because I knew she had her phone and she tried to cleverly but it away when she got out the shower. When she got in the shower I searched for her phone and it wasn't Nywhere to be found. I asked her did she have her phone outside and she denied it. Then she said if she did she didn't realize it. She knew she did. She made up the excuse that it was an empty cigarette box but i didn't find Any empty cigarette boxes anywhere. She then crafted another lie saying the box wasn't empty and she was ashamed for me to know she had a full box of cigs. She tells me to be honest but she can't do it for nothing and its over small stuff.
I appreciate your words. I'm still in shock how just last week she was so kind and loving making all these promises. The move to Florida was suppose to be mutual And we were suppose to move this weekend or early this week. We discussed this after she destroyed my life. We decided to start somewhere new away from Louisiana. The thing is for her to run out on me this past week she had to be thinking that long before then. She was so adamant about looking in my phone seeing who im calling texting.... I gave her my phone to show she could trust me and see I wAsnt doing anything. She didn't like me being on this site. Rewind to valentines day I went to shower and she put a card on the bed and it said lets turn our phones off and have no distractions. She also said, there are no words to describe how she feels about me and told me to be hers. So I get out the shower and she was outside smoking (which she said she only does when she is stressing). But then she comes in and she has her phone in her pocket and then takes it in the bathroom which is a big no no for us. She gets out the shower and sees that I'm on this site and references the card and the no cell phone comment. I get irritated because I knew she had her phone and she tried to cleverly but it away when she got out the shower. When she got in the shower I searched for her phone and it wasn't Nywhere to be found. I asked her did she have her phone outside and she denied it. Then she said if she did she didn't realize it. She knew she did. She made up the excuse that it was an empty cigarette box but i didn't find Any empty cigarette boxes anywhere. She then crafted another lie saying the box wasn't empty and she was ashamed for me to know she had a full box of cigs. She tells me to be honest but she can't do it for nothing and its over small stuff.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 9:51 am to MsGarrison
That girl is poison.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 9:58 am to MsGarrison
And the said thing was if she didn't make me do all this stuff I wouldn't have had a problem with her taking her phone outside or in the bathroom. But she said she couldn't trust me. I've been honest with her and open. But it's been her being shady. The day after valentines day she received a call from a number she didn't recognize.. She didn't say anything to me that day. She had a rehearsal for a show that night so she kept it to herself... I hang around all day in a parking lot for her then I decide to go meet with an ex coworker who wanted to know what happened and why I got fired. The coworker was nice enough to give me and my ex a plate of food. She had a problem with me going to talk to her. I even told her via text where I was going And I'll be back ( I had been sitting in that lot for 4hours). I get back when she was on her break and we talk she checks my mileage on my odometer. She then questions me where does she live And etc... Remember the phone call I just referenced that she received. Well on Mardi Gras day I wake up grumpy because I was stressing over finances and other things. She gets upset and says, your ex called me sunday. That's where u probably were at.. I was like, WHAT!? She said I talk to her mom and she said maybe it was her daughter Lori who had called ( my previous ex has a sister named lori). She then went on to email my ex saying thAt she noticed she had called and told her to call her back. Well, we called that number from my phone. It wasn't my ex it was actually a wrong number. She wouldn't even apologize for trying to start stuff. So that just gave her more of a reason to ignore me and text her friends up until .,,,,,,,
Posted on 2/22/15 at 10:04 am to MsGarrison
Read a book
Do a puzzle
Keep your mind off of her. Soon enough another girl will get your attention and you will back in business.
Do a puzzle
Keep your mind off of her. Soon enough another girl will get your attention and you will back in business.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 10:04 am to MsGarrison
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After all this happened she then makes the rash decision to move out of Louisiana and did it very quickly.
All the LSU trolls make sense now. Your girl was fricking some LSU fan behind your back.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 10:04 am to MsGarrison
Too much drama. Y'all are both messed up if you keep rehearsing all of this.
Let her go. Move on. Your head is getting messed up with this. Your posts aren't even making sense now. Go back and read what you just wrote. Are you wanting people to affirm how right you are? Why do you need that? Yes, you are right, but the more that you type, the more co-dependent you reveal yourself to be - which is fine. I am not being critical of you. I am just saying that YOU need a clean break. Forget about what she is going to do. Break it off for your own health.
Let her go. Move on. Your head is getting messed up with this. Your posts aren't even making sense now. Go back and read what you just wrote. Are you wanting people to affirm how right you are? Why do you need that? Yes, you are right, but the more that you type, the more co-dependent you reveal yourself to be - which is fine. I am not being critical of you. I am just saying that YOU need a clean break. Forget about what she is going to do. Break it off for your own health.
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