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re: my ex left me again and its tearing me apart (Please give me some advice/insight)

Posted on 2/25/15 at 5:10 am to
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 5:10 am to
Dude this is how stds are spread, move on
Posted by MsGarrison
Steele Town LOL
Member since Nov 2009
22009 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 7:43 am to
Well I got some sleep last night. Granted it wasn't much my stomach was in knots. I had dreams of her being with someone else. I then woke up and just for a moment thought I was still Dreaming and everything hit me again I broke down. I've never cried so much. So, I wanted to lash out and just tell her that I hated her guts and remind her how horrible a person she was. I got on my phone and wrote down how I was feeling and sent her a fb msge. I know she can't get into her facebook so she won't see it today or tomorrow quite possibly never. But I felt better after doing that. I just want this pAin to go away
Posted by WhitewaterDawg
Tennessee
Member since Aug 2011
7233 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 7:50 am to
Posted by Themole
Palatka Florida
Member since Feb 2013
5557 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 7:56 am to
Man, there's been a ton of good advice given to you in this thread.You need some advance schooling in basic survival skills.

I would suggest you join the Marine Corp. They have a way of getting a persons mind focused on one thing, with the quickness. They will instill a discipline of mind that you never thought you could achieve.

The Marine Corp builds men, in body, mind & spirit.

Give it a try. You will never regret it!
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 8:13 am to
Lotta bad advice in this thread. It's no wonder you're a basket case.

You need to swallow your pride and grovel yourself before her. Clearly she is a delicate flower and you were heavy handed with her, driving her to do the things she did. Admit fault. You will feel better about yourself, and it will soothe her anger towards you. Then go to her and apologize profusely, if you mean it. Make up your mind to dedicate yourself 100% to her well-being, if you want her back. Women need attention and need to be treated softly. This woman has the potential to be the love of your life if you play your cards right. Commit your life to her, and she will repay you in spades.
Posted by skirpnasty
Atlantis
Member since Aug 2012
10781 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 8:21 am to
I'm going to give advice in no particular order.

- Pick up a hobby, golf is a nice choice.
- Find a few books to read, Game of Thrones or Red Rising are good choices.
- Stop communicating with her.
- Maybe try moving into a rebound, you mentioned you still talk with your ex.
- Spend some time with your bro friends.
- Rent Marley and Me. Getting all those sads out at once is like emptying the tank on a bad hangover.
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 9:38 am to
Where do you live? I am in West Georgia area and will get in my car to meet you halfway. You really need a flurry of snap kicks polished off with a roundhouse to give you a reason to cry. I have about had it with you and this crying bullshite.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 10:00 am to
quote:

I know her. when we broke up the last time she said she checked her email daily waiting to see if I sent her something.


This is 'll you need to know! QUIT CONTACTING HER!!!

frickING LISTEN FOR ONCE

She looks for your contact as proof of her CONTROL over you. When you cease your contact, it will freek her out and you will learn she has been playing a hurtful game of control with your feelings.

Go to FB and erase your message to her. She looks for contact, even if it is bad words, in her mind it is contact and show her she is still in control.

Your feelings aren't feeling towards her, they are you own way if helping your dependancy on her. Your giving yourself false hope.

Last time I help. Block her #, block her email, block her on social media (she won't show up in mutual friends' pages). If at some point she wants to contact you, she can do it in person.

She tried to ruin your career dumbass! Treat her like you would treat anyone who did that. SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!

This post was edited on 2/25/15 at 10:03 am
Posted by DownSouthJukin
Coaching Changes Board
Member since Jan 2014
27172 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 10:04 am to
This is the greatest personal sob story troll eva. Congrats. The bar has been raised for PioneerBasketball.
This post was edited on 2/25/15 at 10:06 am
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 10:04 am to
And lastly, quit posting in this rediculous thread. It's not helping. It's actually keeping your pain going.

And quit talking to all of your friends and family about this....I swear to God they avoid you so they don't hear any of this pathetic story.
Posted by TigerPanzer
Orlando
Member since Sep 2006
9476 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 10:43 am to
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She probably got an Orlando area number now

What does she look like? Some broad moved in next door a couple days ago.
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 11:01 am to
quote:

Well I got some sleep last night. Granted it wasn't much my stomach was in knots. I had dreams of her being with someone else. I then woke up and just for a moment thought I was still Dreaming and everything hit me again I broke down. I've never cried so much.


You def got a bad case of co-dependency bro. Sux.

I'll tell you how this is going to play out.

1. She'll come back.
2. You'll take her back for a short while but won't trust her.
3. After 1 to 2 years you'll be over it and the first time she hears you're out with another woman she'll freak the f'k out. (This is the point she tries something desperate - getting pregnant, getting violent, etc)
4. You'll finally reject her for good.
5. She'll keep calling you for years.


been there done that
Posted by BIGFOOD
Member since Jun 2011
12490 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 11:53 am to
quote:

QUIT CONTACTING HER!!!

frickING LISTEN FOR ONCE

She looks for your contact as proof of her CONTROL over you.


quote:

Go to FB and erase your message to her.


This...you really need to stop contacting this bitch. Like Gee says, it is proof of her control over you. Cut off all contact and move on, regroup, and work on you. This will be the best "payback" you can dish out. Cutting off all contact with her will chew her up if she views it as a way of "controlling" you.
Posted by rootisback
Member since Mar 2014
3371 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 3:16 pm to
Just keep letting her use her strap-on on you dude. That must be what you're liking.
Posted by Vols&Shaft83
Throbbing Member
Member since Dec 2012
69890 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 3:20 pm to
RA'D for anchor again. This thread needs to die.
Posted by Rig
BHM
Member since Aug 2011
41856 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 3:27 pm to
Aw man I was just starting to read it
Posted by DownSouthJukin
Coaching Changes Board
Member since Jan 2014
27172 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 4:31 pm to
quote:

RA'D for anchor again. This thread needs to die.


You're fricking heartless.
Posted by MsGarrison
Steele Town LOL
Member since Nov 2009
22009 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 4:47 pm to
Now I'm back angry at this whore. My mom found out. She just got out of the hospital from recovering from a stroke. Now she is upset. I didn't want her to know being the condition she is in.
Posted by TMDawg
Member since Nov 2012
5374 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 5:52 pm to
Your mom is probably more angry her son is a pussy
Posted by MsGarrison
Steele Town LOL
Member since Nov 2009
22009 posts
Posted on 2/25/15 at 6:38 pm to
Yep!
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