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re: Women's article on playing "hard to get".
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:36 pm to deltaland
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:36 pm to deltaland
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Another strategy is to call them out on it. Acknowledge you've caught on to her game and put her on the spot to say yes or no.
Yep, you hit it all on the head man.
Really, though, I think the best advice to any man is: Don't overpursue. Throw out some feelers and hang back, if she likes you it'll work out, if she doesn't you're more prepared to move on.
I'm just well beyond playing games these days (I'm only 27), really, there are few women that I actively pursue.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:36 pm to deltaland
Mackdaddy Delta knows what's up.
How long until Diddy shows up to call us all queers or something? Interesting to see how he decides to play it.
How long until Diddy shows up to call us all queers or something? Interesting to see how he decides to play it.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:37 pm to KSGamecock
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Mackdaddy Delta knows what's up.
How long until Diddy shows up to call us all queers or something? Interesting to see how he decides to play it.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:49 pm to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
You used to be able to just send a dick pic. But now everyone over plays their hand and throws them out there all over the place and us responsible users are the ones who get punished
Posted on 11/18/14 at 11:26 pm to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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Jesus Christ this got dark fast.
.......No offense Tbird.
I chuckled
Posted on 11/19/14 at 5:05 am to CheeseburgerEddie
Yea the devaluation of the dick pic is one of the most important issues of our day.
This post was edited on 11/19/14 at 5:06 am
Posted on 11/19/14 at 5:15 am to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
In my days, we just knock them in the fricking head with a club and take what we want
Mo easier.
Bitch wont play no games then
Mo easier.
Bitch wont play no games then
Posted on 11/19/14 at 6:01 am to KSGamecock
And obama hasn't done or said shite about it.
Posted on 11/19/14 at 8:04 am to CheeseburgerEddie
That article was silly.
Posted on 11/19/14 at 8:45 am to Tiger n Miami AU83
If there is a lack congruence or consistency with how they feel, by acting out a game, it feels the same as lack of interest, and a gracious reason to move on imho.
Posted on 11/19/14 at 8:51 am to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
dafuq is this shite?
If she ain't naked after the 3rd date then diddy walks, yo.
If she ain't naked after the 3rd date then diddy walks, yo.
Posted on 11/19/14 at 9:34 am to diddydirtyAubie
Diddy don't play!
Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:14 am to deltaland
deltaland
This guy gets it.
In all seriousness though, it is amazing how much women seem to be addicted to game playing. I recently got back into the dating scene and am fascinated how women seem to crave drama.
I recently went out with a girl I met who I had kinda of written off after our second date. Good lookin woman who I am interested in but a little flaky and strange but not in a bad way. I also sensed I was slowly being friend zoned. I decided to mess with her head a bit by suggesting she wasn't my type. That was like flipping a switch. Her attitude COMPLETELY changed at the mere suggestion I was rejecting her. Starting suggesting that me meeting her for a night of dancing = her becoming my type. Picked her up had a great night out on the town. Lots of touching, grabbing, holding hands, etc. Stayed with her and nothing big happens. Women be crazy.
On the other hand, I met and started talking with another woman I met online. Average looking woman who I took a very cocky, don't give a sh## attitude with. By the end of our first conversation we were already dirty talking each other. I wish I could take that attitude with all my prospects because this woman became obsessed with me. Literally a jealous mess to the point where I started to feel guilty about messing with her head so much. I did the responsible thing and friend zoned her and we are good friends but she wants more.
Women claim they don't like to play games but that's BS. They thrive on drama. I don't put up with the games but will throw it back in their face when they start up with it.
This guy gets it.
In all seriousness though, it is amazing how much women seem to be addicted to game playing. I recently got back into the dating scene and am fascinated how women seem to crave drama.
I recently went out with a girl I met who I had kinda of written off after our second date. Good lookin woman who I am interested in but a little flaky and strange but not in a bad way. I also sensed I was slowly being friend zoned. I decided to mess with her head a bit by suggesting she wasn't my type. That was like flipping a switch. Her attitude COMPLETELY changed at the mere suggestion I was rejecting her. Starting suggesting that me meeting her for a night of dancing = her becoming my type. Picked her up had a great night out on the town. Lots of touching, grabbing, holding hands, etc. Stayed with her and nothing big happens. Women be crazy.
On the other hand, I met and started talking with another woman I met online. Average looking woman who I took a very cocky, don't give a sh## attitude with. By the end of our first conversation we were already dirty talking each other. I wish I could take that attitude with all my prospects because this woman became obsessed with me. Literally a jealous mess to the point where I started to feel guilty about messing with her head so much. I did the responsible thing and friend zoned her and we are good friends but she wants more.
Women claim they don't like to play games but that's BS. They thrive on drama. I don't put up with the games but will throw it back in their face when they start up with it.
Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:47 am to Govt Tide
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In all seriousness though, it is amazing how much women seem to be addicted to game playing. I recently got back into the dating scene and am fascinated how women seem to crave drama.
I've been on a few dates since a split with my ex this year and I have to say the craving drama shite: Seems aptly appropriate. Although I just don't have the energy for drama, nor dating at this point.
I've noticed that with women in some regards -- there is no winning. There are multiple ways to be wrong, but depending on their mood for the moment: there's rarely a way to be right.
I don't mind crazy, but if she's doing this shite before we're even together, she's the type of crazy that I don't want to be around.
Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:51 am to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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I don't mind crazy, but if she's doing this shite before we're even together, she's the type of crazy that I don't want to be around.
Yup.
All women are assorted degrees of crazy, it's a matter of how much you feel you can handle long-term
Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:52 am to TbirdSpur2010
Your wife must've stopped posting here
Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:57 am to TbirdSpur2010
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Yup.
All women are assorted degrees of crazy, it's a matter of how much you feel you can handle long-term
The spectrum of crazy for a woman needs to be graphed, I daresay.
I think there's too many different types, though.
There's the "I'll kill myself if you leave me" (Sleeping Tiger Type), the jealous one (actually kinda like 'em ), the one that doesn't answer your texts right away because she's afraid that you're going to judge her for not being social enough but isn't afraid you'll judge her for being dismissive and unpunctual.
List goes on forever.
Posted on 11/19/14 at 11:03 am to DMagic
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Your wife must've stopped posting he
She reads my shite regularly and calls me out on it sometimes
I've actually had this very conversation with her before tho. She knows she's crazy
Posted on 11/19/14 at 11:04 am to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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The spectrum of crazy for a woman needs to be graphed, I daresay.
Paging KSGamecock.....
Posted on 11/19/14 at 11:05 am to TbirdSpur2010
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She reads my shite regularly and calls me out on it sometimes
I've actually had this very conversation with her before tho. She knows she's crazy
She's a white girl, man, there is absolutely no way she isn't.
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