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re: Women's article on playing "hard to get".

Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:36 pm to
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:36 pm to
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Another strategy is to call them out on it. Acknowledge you've caught on to her game and put her on the spot to say yes or no.


Yep, you hit it all on the head man.

Really, though, I think the best advice to any man is: Don't overpursue. Throw out some feelers and hang back, if she likes you it'll work out, if she doesn't you're more prepared to move on.

I'm just well beyond playing games these days (I'm only 27), really, there are few women that I actively pursue.
Posted by KSGamecock
The Woodlands, TX
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:36 pm to
Mackdaddy Delta knows what's up.

How long until Diddy shows up to call us all queers or something? Interesting to see how he decides to play it.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:37 pm to
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Mackdaddy Delta knows what's up.

How long until Diddy shows up to call us all queers or something? Interesting to see how he decides to play it.



Posted by CheeseburgerEddie
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Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:49 pm to
You used to be able to just send a dick pic. But now everyone over plays their hand and throws them out there all over the place and us responsible users are the ones who get punished
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 11/18/14 at 11:26 pm to
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Jesus Christ this got dark fast.

.......No offense Tbird.


I chuckled
Posted by KSGamecock
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Member since May 2012
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 5:05 am to
Yea the devaluation of the dick pic is one of the most important issues of our day.
This post was edited on 11/19/14 at 5:06 am
Posted by LanierSpots
Sarasota, Florida
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 5:15 am to
In my days, we just knock them in the fricking head with a club and take what we want


Mo easier.



Bitch wont play no games then


Posted by CheeseburgerEddie
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 6:01 am to
And obama hasn't done or said shite about it.
Posted by Tiger n Miami AU83
Miami
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 8:04 am to
That article was silly.
Posted by civilag08
Member since Feb 2011
806 posts
Posted on 11/19/14 at 8:45 am to
If there is a lack congruence or consistency with how they feel, by acting out a game, it feels the same as lack of interest, and a gracious reason to move on imho.
Posted by diddydirtyAubie
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 8:51 am to
dafuq is this shite?

If she ain't naked after the 3rd date then diddy walks, yo.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 9:34 am to


Diddy don't play!
Posted by Govt Tide
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:14 am to
deltaland


This guy gets it.


In all seriousness though, it is amazing how much women seem to be addicted to game playing. I recently got back into the dating scene and am fascinated how women seem to crave drama.

I recently went out with a girl I met who I had kinda of written off after our second date. Good lookin woman who I am interested in but a little flaky and strange but not in a bad way. I also sensed I was slowly being friend zoned. I decided to mess with her head a bit by suggesting she wasn't my type. That was like flipping a switch. Her attitude COMPLETELY changed at the mere suggestion I was rejecting her. Starting suggesting that me meeting her for a night of dancing = her becoming my type. Picked her up had a great night out on the town. Lots of touching, grabbing, holding hands, etc. Stayed with her and nothing big happens. Women be crazy.

On the other hand, I met and started talking with another woman I met online. Average looking woman who I took a very cocky, don't give a sh## attitude with. By the end of our first conversation we were already dirty talking each other. I wish I could take that attitude with all my prospects because this woman became obsessed with me. Literally a jealous mess to the point where I started to feel guilty about messing with her head so much. I did the responsible thing and friend zoned her and we are good friends but she wants more.

Women claim they don't like to play games but that's BS. They thrive on drama. I don't put up with the games but will throw it back in their face when they start up with it.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:47 am to
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In all seriousness though, it is amazing how much women seem to be addicted to game playing. I recently got back into the dating scene and am fascinated how women seem to crave drama.


I've been on a few dates since a split with my ex this year and I have to say the craving drama shite: Seems aptly appropriate. Although I just don't have the energy for drama, nor dating at this point.

I've noticed that with women in some regards -- there is no winning. There are multiple ways to be wrong, but depending on their mood for the moment: there's rarely a way to be right.

I don't mind crazy, but if she's doing this shite before we're even together, she's the type of crazy that I don't want to be around.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:51 am to
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I don't mind crazy, but if she's doing this shite before we're even together, she's the type of crazy that I don't want to be around.



Yup.

All women are assorted degrees of crazy, it's a matter of how much you feel you can handle long-term
Posted by DMagic
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:52 am to
Your wife must've stopped posting here
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 11/19/14 at 10:57 am to
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Yup.

All women are assorted degrees of crazy, it's a matter of how much you feel you can handle long-term


The spectrum of crazy for a woman needs to be graphed, I daresay.

I think there's too many different types, though.

There's the "I'll kill myself if you leave me" (Sleeping Tiger Type), the jealous one (actually kinda like 'em ), the one that doesn't answer your texts right away because she's afraid that you're going to judge her for not being social enough but isn't afraid you'll judge her for being dismissive and unpunctual.

List goes on forever.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 11/19/14 at 11:03 am to
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Your wife must've stopped posting he


She reads my shite regularly and calls me out on it sometimes

I've actually had this very conversation with her before tho. She knows she's crazy
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 11/19/14 at 11:04 am to
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The spectrum of crazy for a woman needs to be graphed, I daresay.



Paging KSGamecock.....
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 11/19/14 at 11:05 am to
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She reads my shite regularly and calls me out on it sometimes

I've actually had this very conversation with her before tho. She knows she's crazy


She's a white girl, man, there is absolutely no way she isn't.
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