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Women's article on playing "hard to get".
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:01 pm
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:01 pm
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Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:04 pm to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
This gives neckbeards everywhere hope. She's not ignoring you, she's actually wild about you but just a manipulative bish.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:08 pm to KSGamecock
Bitches
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Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:10 pm to CheeseburgerEddie
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Bitches
I have a lot of female students and they're the ones who showed me this article. I wasn't surprised that it existed, I was surprised that most of them admitted to doing it in the past.
Kind of made me
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:12 pm to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Did you tell them that it was turrible advice?
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:14 pm to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Not one iota of good advice in that article 
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:16 pm to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:37 pm to CheeseburgerEddie
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Did you tell them that it was turrible advice?
Of course I did. It's a lose-lose wager for the most part.
Guy likes you but has self-confidence: He's going to stop chasing and think you're disinterested.
Guy likes you but lacks self-confidence: He's going to come off as excessively pursuant and overeager and you (the female) are going to become disinterested in him.
Either way it's just a pitifully stupid game with no winners.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:39 pm to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Playing games in general when it comes to relationships is just stupid, IMO.
Be real with folks and drama is diminished
Be real with folks and drama is diminished
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:42 pm to TbirdSpur2010
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Playing games in general when it comes to relationships is just stupid, IMO.
That's what I mean -- it's just bizarrely sociopathic to deliberately deceive someone. Great way to start off your relationship.
I think this kind of behavior is a lot more prevalent than people know, though.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:44 pm to TbirdSpur2010
Different rules
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:51 pm to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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I think this kind of behavior is a lot more prevalent than people know, though.
Too many people think this is a mutherfrickin' game
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:00 pm to TbirdSpur2010
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Too many people think this is a mutherfrickin' game
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:10 pm to TbirdSpur2010
It's not a game dammit, this is real mutherfrickin life. I'm tired of getting fzoned. Why do all the good m'ladies end up with jerks?
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:11 pm to KSGamecock
Maybe Cosby has some pointers for you?
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:13 pm to CheeseburgerEddie
Spike the jello...already knew that one.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:13 pm to KSGamecock
Only n00bs go for the jello.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:15 pm to KSGamecock
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Spike the jello...already knew that one.
Jesus Christ this got dark fast.
.......No offense Tbird.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:15 pm to CheeseburgerEddie
I heard you like noobs.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 10:28 pm to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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Guy likes you but has self-confidence: He's going to stop chasing and think you're disinterested.
The trick is to learn how to recognize when they really like you and are playing games...then once you know you can turn their own games around on them.
Usually her eyes will give it away. Once you know, then it's just a matter of playing your cards right. You have to show her enough interest that she knows you like her, but you can't go chasing after her like a lost puppy. Get her hoping that you'll pursue her, get her hopes up. Give her some attention. If she starts playing the hard to get game, drop her like a hot potato. Don't be a dick, just wander off and ignore her. Talk to other girls casually, her jealousy will kick in and next thing you know she'll be chasing you
It all lies in how you play it off though...you have to come across as a relaxed and confident person. Never act like a dick or a player, you have to be that cool guy that doesn't give a shite. It's a fine line to walk but with the right moves you can break them of playing games pretty quick, just remain in control. Some may not bite, but many of them will.
Another strategy is to call them out on it. Acknowledge you've caught on to her game and put her on the spot to say yes or no.
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