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Guys that fall for women with Kids
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:23 pm
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:23 pm
Is there anything more pathetic then a guy taking care of another mans kid? I'm not talking about a male in his late 30's/40's who already has his own kids, or passed on having kids earlier in life, and now lives with their kids.
I'm talking about guys in the mid 20's with no kids falling for a girl in the same age range with tots.
So I visit my buddy last night, and he invites some people over from the restaurant he works at(that kind of crowd). Later on this couple walks in, and the guy is toting a baby in his arms. At first glance I think "cool, here's a guy taking care of his kid". He quickly walks in another room for "diaper duty" as he says, and his girlfriend stays in the living room and talks to us. She's somewhat attractive, but she just had a baby, so...
Out of nowhere she makes some skanky arse joke about how she was talking to a lady at the day care and told her about her "sperm donor", and the lady didnt understand her whorish joke. Right then I figured out that ole boy who went to another room for "diaper duty" was just some sucker she found.
As the night goes on I see this joke of a man take care of this bastard about %80 of the night. While the guys are on the back deck, having drinks etc., he stays in the play room doing "baby talk". The only time he's bastard-less is when he goes outside for a smoke, but when he comes in he's quickly met with bastard and skank momma saying "it's your time to take her". To which he does without hesitation. I then come to find out that they've only been together for ONE month. It get's even more pathetic when he starts telling us about how he can't wait till this baby is a teen, and he gets to punkout guys that try and date his "daughter". That's right, after one month this dipshit is preparing for the bastards teen years.
I know, TL;DR, but I had to vent. I can't ever remember seeing such a pathetic man in my life. I have more respect for guys in the friendzone, nerds, virgins, gays, radical muslims and pretty much everyone else above this guy. She probably doesnt even let him hit it.
Does anyone know guys like this? Is this prevalent? Is he a pedo and I'm just oblivious?
I'm talking about guys in the mid 20's with no kids falling for a girl in the same age range with tots.
So I visit my buddy last night, and he invites some people over from the restaurant he works at(that kind of crowd). Later on this couple walks in, and the guy is toting a baby in his arms. At first glance I think "cool, here's a guy taking care of his kid". He quickly walks in another room for "diaper duty" as he says, and his girlfriend stays in the living room and talks to us. She's somewhat attractive, but she just had a baby, so...
Out of nowhere she makes some skanky arse joke about how she was talking to a lady at the day care and told her about her "sperm donor", and the lady didnt understand her whorish joke. Right then I figured out that ole boy who went to another room for "diaper duty" was just some sucker she found.
As the night goes on I see this joke of a man take care of this bastard about %80 of the night. While the guys are on the back deck, having drinks etc., he stays in the play room doing "baby talk". The only time he's bastard-less is when he goes outside for a smoke, but when he comes in he's quickly met with bastard and skank momma saying "it's your time to take her". To which he does without hesitation. I then come to find out that they've only been together for ONE month. It get's even more pathetic when he starts telling us about how he can't wait till this baby is a teen, and he gets to punkout guys that try and date his "daughter". That's right, after one month this dipshit is preparing for the bastards teen years.
I know, TL;DR, but I had to vent. I can't ever remember seeing such a pathetic man in my life. I have more respect for guys in the friendzone, nerds, virgins, gays, radical muslims and pretty much everyone else above this guy. She probably doesnt even let him hit it.
Does anyone know guys like this? Is this prevalent? Is he a pedo and I'm just oblivious?
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Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:25 pm to DonDraper
I think your rant may be a bit off and too generalized with too many assumptions in all honesty.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:25 pm to DonDraper
I thought you were a dick until I read this:
There's no hope for him.
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I then come to find out that they've only been together for ONE month
There's no hope for him.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:27 pm to DonDraper
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I have more respect for guys in the friendzone, nerds, virgins, gays, radical muslims and pretty much everyone else above this guy.
This post was edited on 7/16/13 at 7:28 pm
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:28 pm to Tiger n Miami AU83
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I think your rant may be a bit off and too generalized with too many assumptions in all honesty.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:34 pm to Tiger n Miami AU83
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I think your rant may be a bit off and too generalized
While I did, and it's unfair to do so, why on earth would a 24 year old male with no kids want to take that on?
Where do the red flags stop? Getting pregnant before 23 with no baby daddy in the life? Atleast give the kid up for adoption, or abort it.
She referred to the baby daddy as a sperm donor for christ sake.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:36 pm to DonDraper
Sounds like somebody just can't stand children period and his viewpoint on any relationship that involves children is going to be tainted as such.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:36 pm to diddydirtyAubie
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diddydirtyAubie
Hey man, I didn't happen to run into you at a house party in metro ATL last night did I?
In all seriousness, you have empathy for this guy?
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:37 pm to DonDraper
He sounds like a pussy whipped bitch for sure. Though in most cases like these the guy truly loves the girl and tries to include the kid in their relationship so the kid has the proper attention, which I see no problem at all in.
But in this case, sounds like the girl is a trashy slut who is using him to take care of her baby so she doesn't have to do shite.
But in this case, sounds like the girl is a trashy slut who is using him to take care of her baby so she doesn't have to do shite.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:39 pm to PrivatePublic
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Sounds like somebody just can't stand children period and his viewpoint on any relationship that involves children is going to be tainted as such.
How did you get that? Couldn't be farther from the truth. I have two best friends that are married with their own children, and I love them. I'm also planning to have one of my own in the future.
So I guess this guy I described is normal, and I'm just way out there?
This post was edited on 7/16/13 at 7:41 pm
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:44 pm to DonDraper
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While I did, and it's unfair to do so, why on earth would a 24 year old male with no kids want to take that on?
I dunno. I'm now in my 30's and it would take a LOT for me to get serious with someone with kids from another dude. Not saying I wouldn't ever consider it, but it would take a lot and yeah, at 25 I personally would not have even considered a chick with a kid.
But one of my best friends from high school dated a girl with a kid and they even briefly married in his mid 20's. So, the assumptions/ generalizations seemed a bit much, but I'm not disagreeing with the general premise.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:49 pm to DonDraper
Worst part is that 9/10 she is fricking off on him. In the slight chance that she isn't already she will
Posted on 7/16/13 at 7:59 pm to MontyFranklyn
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Worst part is that 9/10 she is fricking off on him. In the slight chance that she isn't already she will
Oh, and I forgot one part. Towards the end of the night I walking to the back porch, and babby momma happens to be standing in the way of the door next to the dinner table. I try and squeeze in between her and the table to get out, and I assumed since she saw me, and I said "excuse me" that she'd move. Instead I squeeze through and right when I'm behind her she sticks out her arse and bumps me with it, and smiles at me while she's on the phone.
My guess is sometime in the near future this guy will come home after a long hard day at work supporting his "daughter", and see two black dudes bangin his girlfriend. They'll ask him to close the door, and he'll sit outside and wait till they're done.
This post was edited on 7/16/13 at 8:00 pm
Posted on 7/16/13 at 8:03 pm to DonDraper
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Does anyone know guys like this?
quote:absolutely. I see it all the time.
I'm talking about guys in the mid 20's with no kids falling for a girl in the same age range with tots.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 8:06 pm to DonDraper
I didn't read any of this, but is it "socially acceptable" for me to date girls with a (strictly singular) kid with me having a kid of my own?
Because frick your opinion if so.
Because frick your opinion if so.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 8:26 pm to DonDraper
Instead I squeeze through and right when I'm behind her she sticks out her arse and bumps me with it, and smiles at me while she's on the phone.
So, did you take this opportunity to give her the D? If not, you're in the puss cake category as well.
So, did you take this opportunity to give her the D? If not, you're in the puss cake category as well.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 8:29 pm to CNB
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I didn't read any of this, but is it "socially acceptable" for me to date girls with a (strictly singular) kid with me having a kid of my own?
Absolutely. No problem at all.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 8:29 pm to DonDraper
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I'm talking about guys in the mid 20's with no kids falling for a girl in the same age range with tots.
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The only time he's bastard-less is when he goes outside for a smoke, but when he comes in he's quickly met with bastard and skank momma saying "it's your time to take her".
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. I then come to find out that they've only been together for ONE month.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 8:32 pm to Vols&Shaft83
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So, did you take this opportunity to give her the D? If not, you're in the puss cake category as well.
Yes, becuase not bangin a fat baby momma with bad skin makes me a puss(the kid is 6 months).
Now if she offered head, then I might think about it.
Posted on 7/16/13 at 8:36 pm to DonDraper
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Beauty is only 2 shots of tequila and a light switch away brah.
This was a better answer
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Yes, becuase not bangin a fat baby momma with bad skin makes me a puss(the kid is 6 months).
Beauty is only 2 shots of tequila and a light switch away brah.
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Now if she offered head, then I might think about it.
This was a better answer
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