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What constitutes as ''cheating'' for you? (Relationship)

Posted on 5/27/15 at 9:35 pm
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 9:35 pm
Let me hear it.

I feel like I should preface this with: I've never been cheated on before.
Posted by five_fivesix
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 9:37 pm to
getting caught
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 9:38 pm to
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getting caught



Hahaha.

I like it.
Posted by deeprig9
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 9:52 pm to
Urban Meyer blowing smoke for Aaron Hernandez when he was wanted as a person of interest for a couple of homocides in Florida, a clear violation of NCAA and Florida's own code of ethics.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 9:55 pm to
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Urban Meyer blowing smoke for Aaron Hernandez when he was wanted as a person of interest for a couple of homocides in Florida, a clear violation of NCAA and Florida's own code of ethics.



What's got ya drinkin' early tonight, friend?
Posted by Tantal
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 9:56 pm to
If you have to ask tRant, it's probably time to move on.
Posted by Roger Klarvin
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 9:58 pm to
It's all relative to the given situation. For instance, just dancing/hanging out a lot with someone you secretly really like is more "cheating" than drunk kissing some random friend IMO. Obviously sex acts are always cheating, but just becoming overly emotionally invested in someone you really care about other than you SO can constitute cheating.
Posted by Stonehog
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:01 pm to
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I feel like I should preface this with: I've never been cheated on before.


As far as you know.
Posted by ChexMix
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Member since Apr 2014
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:02 pm to
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I've never been cheated on before.
We all like to think this....buuuut truth is you will never know. Women can be sneaky AF
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:05 pm to
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It's all relative to the given situation. For instance, just dancing/hanging out a lot with someone you secretly really like is more "cheating" than drunk kissing some random friend IMO. Obviously sex acts are always cheating, but just becoming overly emotionally invested in someone you really care about other than you SO can constitute cheating.


I agree wholeheartedly with this, and that was actually what I was thinking as well. I also think timing counts to some degree. I have a friend right now who essentially did this, but broke up with her boyfriend the same day.

I don't know if I would call it cheating, simply because of the timeframe. But, I would definitely call someone who was just hanging out with someone they really liked (and were emotionally involved with) a cheater.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:07 pm to
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As far as you know.


As far as I know, yes, it's an assumption.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:12 pm to
Emotional cheating is just as bad as physically cheating on someone. If you're leaving your SO to go hang out with someone of the opposite sex and you are both attracted to each other, then that's emotional cheating to me.

I think one of my more insecure stances is if my SO were to see an ex or someone they fooled around with in the past out and about and went out of their way to talk to them, I'd be a little miffed. If they just talked and caught up, that wouldn't be a big deal. But if they hugged or had any extended physical contact, I wouldn't be happy.
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 10:15 pm
Posted by Roger Klarvin
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:14 pm to
I feel like cheating usually comes out after people break up. It's rare that you never find out unless it was an out of town thing or both people involved have reason to keep it from you.
Posted by Garfield
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Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:24 pm to
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What constitutes as ''cheating'' for you? (Relationship)


Anything with the tongue.



Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:24 pm to
If the woman has a blue dress with my jism on it, its cheating.
Posted by Reservoir dawg
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:28 pm to
Most common signs are a change in daily habits and a change in appearance, dress, hair, etc. It's not rocket science, but most dudes have too much of an ego to admit to such a possibility. Those dudes are usually young and unwise.
Posted by Robert Goulet
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:28 pm to
Not wearing a condom
Posted by DownSouthJukin
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:30 pm to
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If the woman has a blue dress with my jism on it, its cheating.




Or if I'm married and using her babymaker as a humidor. That's probably cheating, too.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:49 pm to
i once datdd a girl, that i actually liked, ran into an old fling and fricked her into the 22nd century , told my GF about it, and had her 100% convinced that it wasn't cheating becuase i didn't feel anything.

that was 10-11 years ago, i kinda feel bad about it now. kinda. not really honestly lol
Posted by 3nOut
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Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 5/28/15 at 6:07 am to
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Urban Meyer blowing smoke for Aaron Hernandez when he was wanted as a person of interest for a couple of homocides in Florida, a clear violation of NCAA and Florida's own code of ethics

Keep tRant on tRant.
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