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Posted on 12/26/16 at 11:51 pm
Posted by Sleeping Tiger
Member since Sep 2013
8488 posts
Posted on 12/26/16 at 11:51 pm
Long time Tinderer here.

Have found long-term relationships, one-timers, and month-ish flings.

A few observations:

If there is one black chick in a two person or group photo with white chicks, the profile belongs to the black girl. There is NOT an exception to this. It's true every time.

Whenever there are two or more girls in a main photo, there's a 96% chance the uglier/fatter one is the owner of the profile. Occasionally pretty girls put an ugly in their main photo -- these insecure ho's are easy takedowns.

When a profile is all face/shoulder-and-up photos -- she fat. No exception.

The trashier/sluttier the person, the more sensitive they are to aggressive sexual comments. These ho's have been hearing that shite forever. It's old. It doesn't move their meter. They're getting inboxed all day by dudes saying the same shite. The more innocent and normal, the more receptive they might be to certain types of aggressive, charmingly dominant comments.

All frickable women are getting 'liked'. Most men operate on a will-frick or will-not-frick grading scale. Woman grade differently, there are more variables.

Because of this almost every soft 6 or low-grade 7 female on Tinder is getting 'liked' by A LOT of guys. Her self-value has unnaturally risen. This has to be understood when messaging them. You've got to stand out in some way. Shock them with a comment. Show extreme wit and personality. It sucks, but it's the way it is. The natural order of things has been further distorted because of apps like these.

This was hardly groundbreaking info shared.

I've done a lot of different social experiments on there. Could share some of that stuff if there's interest.
This post was edited on 12/28/16 at 1:35 pm
Posted by Roger Klarvin
DFW
Member since Nov 2012
46505 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 12:00 am to
Be honest, at least one tranny pulled a fast one on you didn't they?
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18043 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 12:43 am to
I am so glad I was married and done with dating before Tinder became a big deal.
Posted by Sleeping Tiger
Member since Sep 2013
8488 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 6:04 am to
One part wishes none of this existed. The world was different. And I was married to my college gf.

But if I was married and all of these new easy access to sex apps emerged, I'd be wondering what I was missing out on.

Posted by Sleeping Tiger
Member since Sep 2013
8488 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 6:06 am to
quote:


Be honest, at least one tranny pulled a fast one on you didn't they?



There was a very dishonest girl who must've gained a lot of weight fast.

Showed up at my place and was almost an entirely different person than her pics.

I don't think she really knew how bad she had gotten. I was happy to inform her.
This post was edited on 12/27/16 at 6:07 am
Posted by WhiskeyDick
shite Poster
Member since Sep 2014
1354 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 6:58 am to
quote:

But if I was married and all of these new easy access to sex apps emerged, I'd be wondering what I was missing out on.



Won't lie, I'm curious what it's like. I'm afraid to even download one and make a fake profile in fear my wife sees it on my phone. I'm a whipped little bitch and the risk far outweighs the reward.
Posted by Shirley U Jhest
Member since Nov 2015
243 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 7:59 am to
You look like auto the school bus driver from the simpsons, this is all fictional.
Posted by Kentucker
Cincinnati, KY
Member since Apr 2013
19351 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 8:19 am to
From their self-description:
quote:

The world's hottest app – Forbes. 10 billion matches later, Tinder has changed the way people meet around the world.


The internet has brought out the underbelly of society and made it bigger.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90473 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 8:30 am to
I've gotten a few flings off of Tinder but honestly I have more luck just going out to some social scene.

I'm not very good at messaging random people I've never met its just weird feeling to me

A lot of it could also be where I live. Very few attractive girls within 25 miles of me. I have to set the radius to 100 miles to pick up the Jackson, Oxford, Starkville groups but few are interested when they see I live 90 miles away
Posted by Pitch To Johnny
Houston
Member since Jun 2015
4194 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 12:14 pm to
quote:

I've done a lot of different social experiments on there. Could share some of that stuff if there's interest.


I for one always welcome some quality Tinder convo screenshots.
Posted by Sleeping Tiger
Member since Sep 2013
8488 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 12:21 pm to
Location is pretty key. And I feel ya for living that far out there. People want convenience. You're at a huge disadvantage if you're over 30 miles away.

StL can run dry, I'll delete and reboot.

When I visit places like Chicago or Austin it's like: is this real life? There's so many options.

And yeah, the real thing is still the ideal way. I feel like I've gotten better at approaching people in real life and deal with the fear of rejection much better thanks to apps like Tinder. There's so many people in the pipeline at all times. I'm always talking to a handful of people. The air of desperation is not there. They pick up on this. I'm communicating and seeing what works and what doesn't so often. It has definitely helped.


This post was edited on 12/27/16 at 12:30 pm
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
16988 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 12:25 pm to
I like to refer to online dating as "a list of people I would never date." I signed up for Tinder and Match.com once. It was funny seeing all the same girls on Match saying "looking of something serious" and Tinder half naked talking about their dick sucking skills.
Posted by Sleeping Tiger
Member since Sep 2013
8488 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 12:28 pm to
Haha.

I have seen a good amount of girls on multiple apps: Tinder and Bumble.

Some have a more dignified profile on Bumble, looser on Tinder. But nothing too drastic in difference.

It was recently referred to as: people shopping. I thought that was pretty accurate.

This post was edited on 12/27/16 at 12:29 pm
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
11414 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 1:32 pm to
quote:

A lot of it could also be where I live. Very few attractive girls within 25 miles of me. I have to set the radius to 100 miles to pick up the Jackson, Oxford, Starkville groups but few are interested when they see I live 90 miles away



This was my issue. I couldn't even reach Oxford and Starkville. All I could pick up was Jackson... I found about 5 in that town that I didn't think would kill me in my sleep... Then, I went to Starkville for the row crop short course a couple years ago, and you can pick up Oxford and Tuscaloosa within 100 miles there. Found this girl in Oxford while I was there... We just got married a couple weeks ago.

Kinda weird when we tell people how we met because we actually have a lot of mutual acquaintances, went to the same college at the same time, etc. Just never had actually met. We consider ourselves an anomaly.
Posted by StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Member since Sep 2013
21146 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 2:21 pm to
Jesus this is a sad thread.
Posted by Sleeping Tiger
Member since Sep 2013
8488 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 2:34 pm to
You chase 14 year olds in Mexico.

Not a joke comment either. You really do.


Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 3:56 pm to
quote:

I for one always welcome some quality Tinder convo screenshots.


That's more challenging to fabricate, so you won't get them.
Posted by dmjones
Acworth, GA
Member since Mar 2016
2303 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 7:16 pm to
Tinder is for people who are socially awkward and not able to meet people on their own.
Posted by Sleeping Tiger
Member since Sep 2013
8488 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 7:30 pm to
No it's not.

Nice try though.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 12/27/16 at 7:48 pm to
quote:

Tinder is for people who are socially awkward and not able to meet people on their own.


Not true at all.

And I have never used the platform.
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