re: So a hottie just moved in next door...

...and that's just another reason you have already failed.

Then again, I suspect that this was a troll all along. There isn't an OT 7 living next door. And even if there is you have no intentions of actually talking to her because you'd cream your pants if you made eye contact.

Yeah bro, you got me by going back in my post history over a year

Maybe if you spent as much time on he neighbor chick then you wouldn't have to ask us what to do.

That's great. It must be nice to have something to wipe your arse with when you run out of toilet paper.

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You've got to learn how to read the situation and also be bold when you have an opening. I'm kinda shy by nature but took this approach with a woman I initially thought was out of my league. I said what the heck and took the nothing to lose approach with her and went in for the kiss on the first date. Ended up dating her for a few months. Women get easily turned on if you have good game and you know how to talk to them and be subtle about it. Recognize when they're trying to friend zone you and turn it around on them. The second she tried to put me in the FZ I flipped it around on her and told her that although I thought she was cool she really wasn't "my type". Her attitude completely changed after that.

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Yup.

That's why it doesn't hurt to have at least one actual girl friend. A good girl friend will freely admit that most girls love the game aspect of dating. If you have no game, they'll brush you aside for a dude who has game. Plain and simple.

You can learn a ton from having one solid friend who happens to be a girl. You learn about the friend zone. You learn women really want. You learn not to be the nice guy but at the same time not to be a dick.

In my opinion, a solid female friend is a potent weapon that should be in every man's relationship arsenal.

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Friend Zone her to network with some of her hot friends?

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This choice is like a savings bond. Might seem like you're losing at first but getting her trust might boost you up to getting an otherwise unreachable friend so in the long run you are actually getting more.

The female friend is helpful but is under typical circumstances is hard to come by. You're right though. They can be extremely helpful though. The woman I described earlier is a testament to how far good game can take someone. This woman was still in love (and basically in a very serious long term, long distance relationship) which she told me about the night we met. I persisted in chasing her though because I liked her and she was clearly looking to go out with other people. I got WAY farther with her considering the circumstances because of some good game and presting her buttons the way I did. She tried really hard to put me in the friend zone but I wouldn't let her. I'd turn the tables on her in a clever way each time she tried to and forced her to chase after me.

Govt Tide gets it. Chazzy doesn't.

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Advise on dating a neighbor

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Don't shite where you eat.

I'm sure the emo girls were all about a trench coat Killz.

FWIW rape and murder got more support than all of your suggestions