re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle

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You seems new at this. Which is fine. You are lucky to be young. Don't worry about any of this, she is not "the one" for you. So just have fun. If she is the one, nothing would be bothering you during this phase. And stop being insecure about other guys. That is weak. It's ok to let other guys act like douches. Just let them sink themselves.

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I'm not "new", I'm in my 30's. I haven't had a GF in a long time though. I have dated nonstop for 2 years. I'm great at dating and seeing multiple chicks at once, but I got tired of it and thought that trying a real relationship with a girl that I like would be "relaxing". Instead it's been agonizing having all my eggs in this one basket. Absolute torture. Maybe I should just play the field my entire life if having a GF is this awful and agonizing. I feel like a 16 year old girl waiting for her to call me back, when only a month ago I had tons of options, etc.