re: How hard is the jump from one child to two?

Nothing to worry about. I have 5 ranging from preschool (4) to law school (24). Aside from needing a bigger vehicle, larger grocery cart, and more extracurricular activities to attend, I never really noticed difficulties or stress adding more on. My sister also has five and shes of the same mindset.

Don’t get me wrong, some days it can be a lot - but the good far outweigh the bad.