re: Opinion: My married longtime ex is texting me A LOT

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She's just trying to see if she can get a rouse out of you. Women hate to be forgotten and ignored. She wants to know if she has you whipped and as soon as she realizes she does, she'll ghost you and continue with her life.

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My experience says this is the case.

An old gf of mine started this crap with me during her first marriage. We hung out a bit after her first divorce. But I would never risk my heart [or an existing] relationship for a girl that needy emotionally. There's no stability when they need that much attention and can be that sneaky.

Last I heard she's on her third marriage and she's gained a ton of weight.