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Posted on 3/31/15 at 1:49 pm
Posted on 3/31/15 at 1:49 pm
I have a friend that wants to propose to her boyfriend after 3.5 years together. Both work full-time and live together. Relationship seems to be strong, but she is tired of waiting on him to pop the question. I think it may blow up on her face. Thoughts?
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Posted on 3/31/15 at 1:50 pm to bamaboy87
bad idea
Posted on 3/31/15 at 1:51 pm to bamaboy87
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I think it may blow up on her face.
If he says yes, she should allow it in my opinion.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 1:54 pm to bamaboy87
Very very bad idea. If he wants to get married, he probably would've done it. She just needs to start talking with him about marriage.
I don't think I could ever say yes in that situation even if I was ready to get married.
I don't think I could ever say yes in that situation even if I was ready to get married.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 1:54 pm to bamaboy87
I see who wears the pants in that relationship.
Women shouldn't propose, it's just not right.
Women shouldn't propose, it's just not right.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 1:58 pm to bamaboy87
I'm not a stickler for tradition but proposals should always come from the man. This is a horrible idea.
If he hasn't proposed yet he doesn't want to get married. We men are simple creatures.
If he hasn't proposed yet he doesn't want to get married. We men are simple creatures.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 1:58 pm to Goldrush25
this is gonna be your friend
Posted on 3/31/15 at 1:59 pm to bamaboy87
She's better off being more "female" in her diplomacy. Sneaky and underhanded, in other words. She needs to simultaneously start dropping hints and get a mutual friend to let him know that he's going to lose her if he doesn't step up.
If she proposes and he says yes and they go through with it she will forever remember the way it went down and he will pay for this. Dearly and beyond death if she can help it.
If she proposes and he says yes and they go through with it she will forever remember the way it went down and he will pay for this. Dearly and beyond death if she can help it.
This post was edited on 3/31/15 at 2:00 pm
Posted on 3/31/15 at 2:18 pm to bamaboy87
Does the male friend wear skinny jeans and a beanie of some sort, regardless of the weather?
Posted on 3/31/15 at 2:20 pm to bamaboy87
Happened to a guy I knew in college. She even bought the ring and gave it to him to put on her finger.
They're still married 15 years a later as far as I know.
They're still married 15 years a later as far as I know.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 2:27 pm to bamaboy87
I can see this going badly.
She just needs to sit him down and have the "so where are we going with this?" talk. Which really isn't unreasonable 3.5 years in.
She just needs to sit him down and have the "so where are we going with this?" talk. Which really isn't unreasonable 3.5 years in.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 2:43 pm to bamaboy87
This is a great way to kick a man's inner caveman in the junk.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 3:29 pm to BluegrassBelle
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She just needs to sit him down and have the "so where are we going with this?" talk. Which really isn't unreasonable 3.5 years in.
This.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 3:36 pm to bamaboy87
please keep us posted when you get updates...i really want to know how this turns out
Posted on 3/31/15 at 3:42 pm to bamaboy87
Probably shouldn't propose, but after 3.5 years, she should probably have the "shite or get off the pot" conversation.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 4:02 pm to bamaboy87
Why wouldn't she just get pregnant and trap his arse like any other normal woman would do?
Posted on 3/31/15 at 4:16 pm to bamaboy87
I see this "proposal" as the "shite or get off the pot" discussion.
If it ends the relationship, then it's time to get off the pot already.
"It's a bold move Cotton, let's see if it works..."
If it ends the relationship, then it's time to get off the pot already.
"It's a bold move Cotton, let's see if it works..."
Posted on 3/31/15 at 4:27 pm to Spirit Of Aggieland
Maybe they have discussed marriage? OP doesn't really say too much, but I would think two well established individuals who have been together 3.5 years would have already discussed the future of their relationship. My SO and I have - we haven't talked marriage, but we have both said we are committed to making it work and that we are in it for the long haul. We've been together about 2 years now.
Posted on 3/31/15 at 4:37 pm to JonaYolles
So is he going to take her name too?
Posted on 3/31/15 at 4:50 pm to bamaboy87
The sooner they get married, the sooner they'll be history. Live-in relationships followed by marriage never make it.
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